image map Home Favorites Reading About Contact

Are you a Pharisee?

Arrogance is the ultimate blind spot.

. . . I’ve noticed something strange about this sin that God hates most. It’s usually found among people who think they love God most.

Spiritual arrogance is not a back-of-the-line sin; it’s a front-of-the-line sin.
LARRY OSBORNE, Accidental Pharisees

Accidental_Pharisees

No one wants to be called a Pharisee. It’s a label for holier-than-thou’s, for hypocrites, for legalists. (But do be aware of its fuller meaning.)

So while we don’t intentionally set out to be a Pharisee, how can we avoid becoming one?

Here are 6 pitfalls found in Larry Osborne’s book Accidental Pharisees. Look for what applies to YOU (not someone else you know). 

1. Pride
When comparison becomes arrogance

Do you have a personal list of “Thank God I’m not like them!”? Do you think your interpretations are the most accurate ones? Do you get frustrated with those who don’t know as much as you know? Do you brag about your church for something other than Jesus?

As valuable as biblical knowledge is, I think it should come with a warning label. The fact is, the more we know, the more we’re tempted to look down on people who don’t know what we know.

. . . When we use the Bible as a prop, every issue and doctrinal disagreement becomes a flash point, an opportunity to show off our superior knowledge and understanding, a way to set us apart.

We forget that the entrance exam to heaven is a blood test, not a Scantron.

We forget that pride and a lack of love nullifies our knowledge, even if it’s a full and complete understanding of all the mysteries in the Bible.

2. Exclusivity
When thinning the herd becomes more important than expanding the kingdom

Do you think the bar of Christianity needs to be raised to keep the riffraff out?  Have you ever used the NIMBY rationale to keep people out (not in MY back yard!)?

While Jesus did draw some lines in the sand, he magnificently broadened the circle to include those once left out.

Jesus didn’t come to thin the herd. He didn’t come to recruit “special ops” Christians.

His goal was to expand the kingdom, to bring salvation to people who previously were excluded. He came to seek and find the lost, including a large group of folks no one else wanted to invite to the party.

Everything about Jesus’ ministry was designed to make salvation and the knowledge of God more accessible. It started with his incarnation.

3. Legalism
When sacrifice crowds out mercy

Do you have a litmus test to be passed for inclusion into your church? Afraid to preach too much grace for fear of it being abused? Destroy others’ freedom by your personal restrictions?

I remember once asking my pastor why we had so many extra fences that weren’t in the Bible. He told me they were for our safety. Apparently, God’s fences weren’t good enough. So we added some extra ones to help him out.

. . . One thing that makes legalism so dangerous is that it always flows out of the best of intentions. Legalists never see themselves as legalists. They see themselves as obedient. They never think of their extrabiblical rules as extrabiblical. They consider them to be profoundly biblical, the careful application of all that the Bible implies.

. . . If we’ve meticulously researched an issue, thought deeply about it, prayed about it, and believe God has revealed something to us, most of us assume that everyone else who is led of the Spirit and intellectually honest with the text will come to the same conclusion. We can’t imagine God being pleased with two opposing applications of one Scripture. Yet as shocking as it may be to some of us, one Scripture can have two opposing applications.

4. Idolizing the past
When idealism distorts reality

Do you idolize the New Testament church (or your church’s past) as the good old days? Think sins today are worse than in times past? Decided “the way it’s always been done” is always good enough?

Look to the past to learn from it and gain perspective, but not to romanticize it nor to be angry about it.

God has always drawn straight lines with crooked sticks. Abraham was a liar, Moses a murderer, David an adulterer, and Peter a denier.

But a strange thing happens with the passage of time.

The farther removed we get from the stick, the more likely we are to credit the stick (rather than the divine artist) as the reason for the straight line.

5. The quest for uniformity
How uniformity destroys unity

Do you confuse unity with uniformity? How big is your list of things worth fighting over? How diverse is your church family (consider more than just race or economic status)?

Jesus loves us in our differences, not despite them. As his believers, he’s made us one; we don’t have to push to make it so. It already is.

We become accidental Pharisees when we lay down boundary markers that are narrower than the ones laid down by Jesus and then treat people who line up on the wrong side of our markers as if they were spiritual imposters or enemies of the Lord.

Our goal may be to protect the flock.

But boundary markers that are narrower than the ones Jesus laid down don’t protect the flock; they divide the flock.

They sow discord among brothers, something God says he’s not too fond of. They also result in a rash of friendly fire.

6. Gift projection
When my calling becomes everyone else’s calling

Do you think others should do the same things you do? Do you value some gifts or callings higher than others? Do you envy somebody else’s gifts?

If you’re hardwired for adventure and risk taking, don’t play it safe. That’s not how God made you.

But don’t judge the spirituality of others through the lens of God’s calling on your life.

Despite what you may think, you’re not living on the ragged edge because you have greater faith. You live there because God wired you for risk and adventure.

If you’re the type who’s scared to death by risk, don’t sweat it. There’s no reason to feel guilty because you don’t want to go stop sex trafficking in Bangkok, wade your way through the Amazon jungle, or spend your summer digging wells in Africa.

Stick with what you’ve been called to do. If God wants you to take a risk, he’ll give you the will and the power to pull it off. He promised. And he won’t need any drive-by guiltings to get his message across.

Conclusion
Unfortunately, I relate to several of these. You probably do too. Sometimes we grow slowly out of our blind spots. But with increased vision of our own self-righteous motives, we can pray for greater focus on Jesus. After all,

Our hope is not in what we do for God. Our hope is in what God has done for us.

That’s the gospel. That’s discipleship in a nutshell.

And that’s what keeps people like you and me from becoming accidental Pharisees.

* * *

Is it easier for you to see traits of Pharisees in yourself or in others?

Which areas hit closest to home with you?

RELATED:

MY THANKS TO BOOKSNEEZE
FOR THE REVIEW COPY OF THIS BOOK

Comments (24)

Loading... Logging you in...
  • Logged in as
Oh, How much do I love your covering this and this book looks great! I did a whole write up on Choking My Inner Pharisee because...well...Guilty. Thanks for this- I tweeted and might share more.
1 reply · active 621 weeks ago
Love that title "Choking My Inner Pharisee". I'm sure we're all equally guilty right there with you. :-(
Thanks for the tweet!
My recent post Are you a Pharisee?
Dear Lisa
Oh, I am overjoyed to see that you are on the same page as I am as far as this is concerned. I write often about the subtle danger of religion, for as you have said, it is with the noblest of intentions. Yet, when our Pappa truly reveals the message of Galatians to our hearts, we come to realize that it is either grace or religion with all its useless laws, rules and stuff. I would love to read that book too.
Much love, dear friend
Mia
My recent post Freshly Pressed: Friday Faves
1 reply · active 621 weeks ago
I think you would like this book, Mia, from what I've seen you write about. It gets pretty gritty about how self-righteous we can be, even when unintentional. Glad you mentioned Galatians--love the message of freedom and grace that is found there! We are called to stand in our freedom. Thanks for your example of doing that! Love you.
My recent post Are you a Pharisee?
Brenda Maddox's avatar

Brenda Maddox · 622 weeks ago

Lisa, this really hit home for me. Talked about this topic this morning in a walk with a friend. Heard a sermon yesterday stating a concern that our future churches could have only feel-good sermons and not preach the laws and message of the cross. Then I went that afternoon to a shower at a church that was so relaxed and the building felt like a coffee shop. How do we take away the legal, formal attire and attitude that we were all raised in, and yet keep an attitude of worship for all? How do we have a church today that my children and grandchildren are comfort with their flip flops and jeans and yet that elderly person is comfortable and both comes away with an attitude of worship? In my case, what "Baptist" rules are just that...a "Baptist" rule and has nothing to do with showing the way to Jesus to the world. Our churches (made of people) are in transition, I pray that I examine myself every day. God knows which direction we need to take and what changes are from Him. Legalism does as much damage as "feel good" only sermons. This article is a keeper.
1 reply · active 621 weeks ago
I hear you, cousin. Jeff and I (and Jenna) have had many, many talks about what the future of the church will look like. Things are definitely in transition in many places right now. Including my own family. We made a huge switch in church homes last year from how we grew up, and are loving the changes, even though we still miss many of our friends. I often wonder what Daddy would think about it. ha. But he was radical in his own way, so I think he'd understand.

Your prayer to "examine myself every day" is a great one. Trusting God with you to take us in the right direction. It's going to be interesting to see what the next few years hold!
My recent post Are you a Pharisee?
Oh, that Pharisee manages to sneak into our lives so quietly, doesn't he? I sometimes fear he's the biggest problem with Christianity. Sigh. I have to admit he's visited me more than once. Great article filled with food for thought and impetus for prayer. Thanks!
My recent post Reflected Sunlight
1 reply · active 621 weeks ago
Yes, Nancy, that Pharisee is a master at tip-toeing in, when we least expect him. I've been through several changes the past year so I feel I need to be extra cautious that I don't become intolerant of those I'm no longer with. It's definitely something I have to stay on my knees about!
My recent post Are you a Pharisee?
I think I, or even my church, have been guilty of all of these at one time or another. It's important to recognize them for what they are since they seem so "righteous" when we're doing them.;) Thanks for giving us a such a descriptive glimpse into Larry Osborne's book. It sounds like a very interesting read, Lisa!
1 reply · active 621 weeks ago
That's what's so ironic about it, yes?--when we're in the midst of these things, we do feel so righteous. Yet actually it's quite the opposite. The book is a good eye-opener, one I'll need to revisit from time to time! Along with gratitude for grace. :-)
My recent post Are you a Pharisee?
Wow! Compelling post, Lisa. This speaks to every heart, regardless of where we're at. It is His truth, "For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God." That puts us all in the same boat.

I'll admit I struggle to have a heart for the legalists, for the ones who say and act like they know it all and yet scripture won't change the mind of the free will they have chosen to exercise. If love and humility are non existent then where is the will of our Father in it? And yet I struggle with the same lack of love...

The spirit is willing but the flesh is indeed weak. Thank you for the convicting post, Lisa. Only a fool runs from the wisdom of God...
My recent post OLD ENOUGH TO KNOW BETTER
1 reply · active 621 weeks ago
I agree with you, Floyd, that this can speak to ALL of us because we're all guilty of being proud our own self-righteousness, just in different ways at different times. I struggle with legalists too--both being one and having no tolerance for one. (Kinda funny how that works, huh?) I know none of us ever get things perfect but thankful that we belong to the one who did and does!
My recent post Are you a Pharisee?
The pride one got me... Oh Father, thank You for mercy!
My recent post Stopping the Rain
1 reply · active 621 weeks ago
Pride is one of my biggest sin areas, too... Yes, so thankful for his unending mercy, much greater than we can imagine!
My recent post Are you a Pharisee?
This looks like a great book. ("The entrance exam is a blood test, not a scantron." I LOVE that!) Unfortunately, I see others faults much more easily than I recognize my own...working on that...
1 reply · active 621 weeks ago
I loved that scantron line too. :-) So thankful we're not subjected to a test like that. And I hear you about recognizing faults in others more than ourselves...as well as remembering the good things that *I* do more than what others do for me. Lord, have mercy on us all. So glad he does!
My recent post Are you a Pharisee?
I'm reading this book too... gonna write a review on it soon. Can I say powerfully ouch! A lot got me in this book, its so easy to pick up our pharisee robes without even noticing it, like grabbing your purse when you head out the door.
My recent post the slow progression of acceptance
1 reply · active 621 weeks ago
I did notice on your blog that you were reading this too. And Wonderstruck. I've heard such good things about that one. It's on my to-read list.

Yes, this one definitely calls for a lot of ouches. The title itself grabbed me: the "accidental" part is somewhat terrifying. So glad Osborne wrote this; I pray it'll wake up many of us and prompt us to be alert to our own ways of the Pharisees (I still naturally see it more in OTHERS, but that's all the more reason I needed the book!).
My recent post Are you a Pharisee?
Lisa, this is something I needed to read right now. I've been struggling with someone I love who has been sitting in judgement and it has taken me a while to realize I've been judging right back. This did sting a little bit, I'll admit. Now, I ask myself...what do I do now? Humble pie is never easy to swallow.
My recent post Playdates with God: Insomnia
1 reply · active 621 weeks ago
I feel you, Laura. This is one of those areas that's easier to spot in others than in ourselves. And then when we do see we're wearing those same robes, we're shocked into humility, for awhile at least. "What do I do now?"--such a difficult but wonderful question. I'm sure you'll be guided with wisdom in what to do next in your situation.
My recent post Are you a Pharisee?
I'm growing out of those blind spots - sometimes it takes humbling failures to open my eyes:) I've been there - in those places you describe - so glad He tore off those blinders!
My recent post No Time to Get My Shine On
1 reply · active 621 weeks ago
Those "humbling failures" - that's the quickest way to discover a blind spot, yes? I've had a few of those myself. I'd rather learn another way if possible though. ha. But whatever works. It sure is nice when we can have clearer vision!
My recent post Write back
Amy L. Sullivan's avatar

Amy L. Sullivan · 621 weeks ago

Can you see me? I'm giving you a virtual high-five. Is it easier to see traits in others or myself? Ooooohhhh, easy question. Others, others, others. Blah.
My recent post Crowdfunding 101
1 reply · active 621 weeks ago
I wondered where that high-five came from--now I know it was you, Amy. :-) Others--yes, that's the answer for me too, unfortunately. I wish I could let others off the hook as easily as I let myself off.
My recent post Write back

Post a new comment

Comments by

LinkWithin

Related Posts with Thumbnails