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We were strangers to each other.
She needed some toiletries from the back, if we had any more free ones.

We chatted small talk when I returned with them. It was a cold night. We both hated that.

I laughed and told her, “We need more fat on our bones to stay warmer.”

That started it. The opening. It was just a sliver at first.

She said, “I used to be a size 14 until three months ago.”

I put my foot in the door to keep it open.
“Oh? How did you lose so much weight?”

“Stress,” she said.
The opening widened.

Oh.

The draft at the edge of the now wide-open space gave me a brave spurt. Could I match hers?

I asked, “What can I pray for you about? I would love to do that right now.”

And that really did it.

When you touch the soul, you touch deep.
Deep touches are strong.

Unguarded, she told me more. She had four children. “And Erin,” she said. “Could you please pray especially for Erin?”

“Yes, of course. Erin.”

I asked her name. “Lynn.” She asked mine so she wouldn’t forget me. She said, “Lisa, I won’t forget this.” I told her, “And Lynn, I will remember you.”

So I pulled in close and prayed down blessings on Lynn. And especially for Erin. Lord, were you listening? Of course. You always are.

What would he do next? I’ll probably never know.

“Lynn, I’ll be praying for you tomorrow, too,” I said. “And for Erin.”

Lynn wiped away tears and we hugged.
Strangers no more.

Because that’s what God does.
He grabs a piece of your soul and connects it to another’s.

And when you touch soul to soul, you’re no longer strangers.

Touch a soul and you touch deep.
Touch deep.

* * *

As Lynn walked away, I wrote myself a note, Lynn. Erin.”
For me, in the writing is the remembering.
So I write this to you.
Because I want to remember.

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Beautiful!!! This is so lovely. Thank you for sharing, I want to remember too. Lord, give me the ears to hear and the eyes to see Your hurting ones today.
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Thanks for the grace-graffiti. :-)
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Oh Lisa...
I have chills. This is what it is all about.
She was brave and let down her mask, and you were brave and walked into that fragile place... coming alongside to hold a hand, to walk together to the throne of grace...

And now, I will lift up prayers as well...
For Lynn, and especially for Erin.
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Thank you, Meredith, for your willingness to pray for people you don't know. The words we share with each other extend far beyond what we could ever imagine...
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My daughter, who has Down's, has taught me the value of the unexpected touch points. I haven't experienced one as profound as this...but those touch points make me shiver with awe every time.
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Oh wow, Kathleen. You do know all about touch points. We learn so many valuable lessons from those who don't communicate in the same way we do. Blessings to you.
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"In the writing down is the remembering." Love that. Also, I'm just starting to appreciate the importance of asking to pray for someone right now, in the moment. Because I do forget. And I'm never sure what God is going to do in response to my prayer. But it matters. I'm going to pause and pray for Lynn and Erin right now.
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Thanks, Nancy. This has been a slow lesson for me to learn too, and one that I'm still horrible at. But I want to do better. May the Lord help us both.
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Oh yes, to not forget the times when He draws us so close to another. It is precious and miraculous and wonderful. Would you link this to SDG tonight if you have time? Such a beautiful example of community.
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I already have linking with SDG on my to-do list for tonight. :-) Thanks for providing the community that you do, Jen. Drawing closer to each other as we draw close to Him is so strengthening. You bless many this way.
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Thank you for sharing your remembering with us.It's a reminder to me to take time to try to touch others.
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Kinda funny-sad...I had an opportunity again this afternoon to "touch others" and I really didn't want to go; just wanted to stay home. But once you write something, you have to force yourself to do it. ha. So I went, and although I had no deep encounters, I did get to do some touching. God keeps on me; I'm glad.
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Well done! Thanks for sharing this. Writing is remembering for me too. Thank God for sticky notes.

Lord, please meet Lynn at the point of her need and make Yourself known to her as her peace. Bring her to know You through Jesus, or to know you better and love you more. Give her this day her daily bread, for Your glory, in Jesus' name. Amen.
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Sticky notes are lifesavers. Although sometimes my notes make no sense. Trying to decipher this afternoon why I wrote down: "Webster horizons." ??? :-)

I love your daily bread prayer for Lynn. Wherever she is tonight, I pray she feels fed.
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So inspiring. I know that the Lord brings people in my path every day to touch with His words of grace, hope and healing. Am I looking? Open my eyes Lord!
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Praying for open eyes is huge. Sometimes I wonder why there are *no opportunities.* Then I realize I haven't really been looking....
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I see Jesus in you, through you. Well done, good and faithful servant. You resemble your Maker.
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Thank you, Jennifer. Your words bring such a blessing.
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That was wonderful and beautiful Lisa... Thanks for that story, the simple truths of our lives that we share in honor of our Father always seem to touch the deepest. This writing "touched deep" as well.
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It does amaze me how God can teach us deep truths out of such simple little encounters. He is the Master Teacher. Thanks for your encouragement, Floyd.
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I just love you, Lisa, that's all. You have such a wonderful, giving heart. You are brave to reach out like that, and so true to God, to always turn to Him for strength and hope. I just love that about you.
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Oh, you make my day, Michelle. Thank you for taking time to read our posts. Praying you have a blessed Thanksgiving. Thinking about you all without your dear m-i-l again...
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Hi Lisa, I love the reminder that our interactions are divine opportunities! So glad to find you and hear your heart.
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We are blessed to know that, aren't we--that our interactions are divinely planned? Otherwise, I'd probably walk through life even more blindly than I already do.
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Beautiful story of the Spirit's leading. I write to remember, too!

By His Grace,
Lisa
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I loved your post on reasons we write. I so get that. Writing is a pathway for many things.
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How I pray for a "Lynn" to come my way.
Such a sweet story. Thank you, Lisa.
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"Lynn"s come so unexpectedly, don't they? I'll be praying for another one too.
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To touch deep, to walk through the door of opportunity into each heart that God places before me, this is my prayer.

Lifting up Lynn and Erin, especially Erin-

Blessed for having been here tonight-

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"especially Erin"--your paying close attention has blessed me--and I know it blessed Erin. Thank you, Stacy.
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Precious encounter that continues to touch deep through the power of prayer and your written words. Thank you Lisa!
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I love how our written words can extend a moment....
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"Because that’s what God does. He grabs a piece of your soul and connects it to another’s. " Oh, Lisa, your words touch deep as well. The Spirit convicts. I pray that I will slow down enough to notice those who need that soul-touch, that prayer-by-name. Thank you for this beautiful reminder today.
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Isn't it amazing how that "prayer-by-name" can mean so much to us? When I hear someone pray specifically for me--by name--I feel so humbled and helped. I need to remember that and put it into practice for others so much more than I do. "Slowing down enough to notice"--that's a big part of it. Thank you.
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Lisa, it's been a long time since I stopped by your place. So glad I did today for the reminder to widen through faith and prayer the doors that crack open daily if I am paying attention. Blessings, girl.
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Thanks, Dawn, for stopping back in. I so often miss those cracked doors because I'm rushing by. Praying for more patience to slow down to see them.
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It is easy to forget, or pretend to care. But your story shows how one can reach out, and to really care for someone who has dared to open up.

Thank you for sharing this.
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It's funny how I can concentrate more on my fear of responding correctly instead of the fear of the person opening up. Lord, give us all more courage!
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Touch deep. It's what we all long for, ache for, connection soul-deep with our God-family. Those two words touch deep today as I stand beside my newly widowed friend -- a place where there are no words, only love, touch, presence. Touch deep. Perfect. Thank you!
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Oh, I am sorry for your friend's loss as well as for your own, Cindee. When our friends ache, we ache too. I'm sure you'll be touching her for awhile to come. Blessings to you on your path of helping her heal.
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It sounds just like you to find a way to connect with another's heart and soul. You've done that for me as well and made me feel comfortable and received in the blogosphere. I don't see it so vast anymore. It feels like home.

"He grabs a piece of our soul and connects to another's"...indeed, strangers no more.
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Oh, yes. That's what God does. I don't know why it always amazes me--the way He uses the simple moments to speak love into lives. This is beautiful, Lisa. So grateful you were there for Lynn. Praying your Thanksgiving is a sweet one!
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"When you touch the soul, you touch deep. "

beautiful. thanks for sharing this for Write It, Girl!
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So beautiful.
Yes, the writing is the remembering. And you took a moment, made it beautiful and shiny with Him.
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