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Auburn University and the University of Alabama are two of the biggest rivalries in college football.

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You declare allegiance early on to one or the other and stick with it. And, unfortunately, often so fiercely that you hate anyone who wears the wrong colors.

But there are cracks in the conflict. I saw a huge schism last month.

Our daughter Jenna sings in the Auburn Gospel Choir. Once a year they team up to perform a Unity Concert with the Alabama Afro-American Choir (20-second video here).

Under the same roof. Side by side. Singing the same song.
Frankly, I wasn’t sure how the colors would mix.

But here’s what I noticed.

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First, I saw color. I admit.

But then I noticed more: it was beautiful color. A wonderful blend.

Not just the blue and orange robes of the Auburn choir and the crimson ties of Alabama. But the black and white skins.

Although Auburn is predominantly made up of African-American students, there are several white kids sprinkled throughout. But Alabama was solidly dark.

Except for one. A single male student. A white boy.

A blind boy.

He stood protected in the middle, guided into place by fellow students (he left his cane in his chair). They gentled nudged him by elbows to sway in time to the music, to the right, to the left, as they sang.

And sing he did. They did. In unison, in harmony, in black and white.

And in color.

In a football stadium in November, the differences between Alabama and Auburn are as loud as they come.

But in a church building year-round, their unity of praise shouts even louder.

Unity doesn’t mean we all have to look alike. To sound alike. To believe exactly alike.

Unity means we’ve learned to live deeper than the differences—to see through many colors—to set eyes on the same Lord.

Don’t let your prejudice keep you from loving those wearing a different color than you. God wants all his children to love each other, not only those just like us.

Declare allegiance to him to love broadly. In unity, not uniformity.

Love in color. 

Jesus first.
Us second. live-second

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Who can you love today that’s different than you?

I’m blogging this week on Live Second. Today, Session 2: Issues; Week 7: Relationships; Day 7: Unity.

Watch more on unity in relationships at I Am Second.
     “Would he ever consider reconciling our relationship? He laughed in my face and said I will never, ever consider doing that. But he would take the letter out 2 or 3 times a week and weep.”
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We've learned a lot about living a life that is color blind over the last 20 years or so. Our daughter was a missionary for a number of years, during which time I had the privilege of visiting her several times on the field. One soon learns that people are the same everywhere, living out lives day to day, just as I am. The difference is that many of them do not know Jesus...the lover of their souls. It is my responsibility to share that LOVE STORY of HIS and if I am not color blind it will affect how they see Jesus. Thank you, Lisa, for this thought provoking post.
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I imagine that being a missionary can really force you to open your eyes to see beyond color and culture and so many other differences that can be barriers when we're all in our homeland. What a blessing your daughter must be to others and to you. You are so precious, Dianna, and I thank God that you share his love story to so many.
Oh yes we must love in color! After all, heaven will be filled with people from every race and color and tribe ...

The first time I had the opportunity to attend services at the Brooklyn Tabernacle was an amazing experience. I was in the minority with my white skin and blonde hair. But as we worshiped and praised the One True Living God, the color didn't matter at all. By the time I left the service, I had been hugged and loved on by brothers and sisters in Christ. I have returned every time I go back to New York and have taken my nieces with me.

Blessings and love,
Debbie
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I would love to worship at Brooklyn Tabernacle! I can imagine that you did stand out there. :-) When we went to El Salvador last year, we had a very blonde, blue-eyed girl with us, and the kids there all loved staring at her and feeling her hair.

I have a niece in Staten Island and we may try to visit her again this spring, so if we do, I'll have to make sure we plan in a service at Brooklyn Tabernacle. Thanks for sharing your experience.
Lisa, if you go please let me know and I can tell you more. I am from NY, Long Island actually. My niece lives in Brooklyn and works as a colorist in a salon in Soho, NYC.
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I will do that, Debbie! I told Jenna to remind me, too. Whether or not we go this spring/early summer, we definitely plan on going in spring 2014 with the Auburn chorus (Lord willing!). Ever since we visited NYC last spring with Jenna’s senior class, I’m looking forward to returning.
Great post, Lisa. "Love in color." Love that.
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I originally had "Live in color" but "love" just seemed like the stronger and more appropriate word so I changed it.
We all should be color blind when it comes to loving one another.
Wonderful post.
Mama Bear
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Thanks. I think we're blessed to live in this area where there are people from many different countries around us. It gives us an opportunity to stretch a little.

Glad you got your Christmas decorating finished. I've done all I'm going to do except wrap presents and send out a few Christmas cards. Hope you have a wonderful Christmas, and yes, let's do get together sometimes. I would like that.
It should be obvious by now that our Father looks at the heart. All of us are of one blood... You can't tell my brothers and sisters in Christ by what they look like, but who they are in their soul.

Our oldest attended ASU and our middle is graduating next week from UofA. They don't say much, but the things they used to wear spoke volumes!
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Yes, God has always told us he looks at the heart. You'd think we'd catch on by now, huh? All one blood...I like that.

So you know about college rivalries, too. ;-) I used to be an Alabama fan (shhh...) but switched allegiance to Auburn when I married Jeff. Just made life easier. :)
Living in Alabama myself (Roll Tide! lol), of course I was immediately drawn into your blog. :)
This is such a great topic, though. Rivalries, whether school or racial, do tend to divide us, but when we look at others through the eyes and love of Christ, those little things do not matter. I have watched things progress in my 50+ years here, and we have long way to go...but our hope in Christ should make us all color-blind to the things that really matter! Great Post!!
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Yes, we do still have a ways to go (especially on the Auburn/Alabama thing, ha).

But thankfully we've made a good bit of progress in our lifetimes in other areas. I actually remember the days of segregation (barely) in north Alabama and it's hard to believe that actually was around in my own lifetime.

So I'll give you a Roll Tide and best wishes for the BCS game, but still end with a friendly War Eagle. :)
Thanks!! It hurt...but I did cheer for Auburn a couple of years ago!! :)
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I know the feeling. :) I'll *try* to pull for Alabama Jan 7.
I love this post. We (as kids) were raised to be "color-blind", as they say. I prefer appreciating the color rather than being blind to it. Our family is very interracial and I love that. I am raising my kids the same. We attend a very diverse church in race and tradition. Can you imagine Heaven? What a party! Thanks for the thought provoking post.
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"appreciating the color rather than being blind to it" - love that. They say the Sunday morning church hour is the most racially segregated time in America, but I'm praying that will continue to change. My church knows no color lines either and I'm grateful. Thanks for sharing your story. Your family is a light to the world.
I agree. that has been a burden on my heart as well. God bless!
Love in Color! Oh how wonderful that would be. I wish we would all do that more.
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If not more now, we definitely will get to do it more later. What beautiful colors there will be in heaven!
Beautiful, Lisa, especially to this fellow (?) Alabamian and UA graduate! :-)
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You know just what I'm talking about then. ;-)

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