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Am I self-righteous?

Do you ever feel smugly satisfied with your Christian life?

You show up at church each Sunday, read your Bible daily, read clean Christian books like Jerry Bridges’ The Discipline of Grace . . .the discipline of grace

And so on, until, like the Pharisee who thought he was better than the tax collector (Luke 18:11-12), we, too, through self-righteousness, can “become the classic example of religious pride and self-satisfaction.” That’s how Bridges puts it in Chapter Two.

How do we keep that from happening?

Partially by not confining sin to only the biggies: adultery, murder, stealing . . . and instead recognizing our own “refined” sins, the ones that nice pew-sitters like us commit.

They’re just as obnoxious to God.

Bridges says many of these sins are in areas of interpersonal relationships. (Feeling uncomfortable yet?) Things like:

  • resentment
  • bitterness
  • an unforgiving spirit
  • impatience
  • irritability

As much as we don’t want to admit it, these transgressions are also rebellion against authority.

The seriousness of sin is not simply measured by its consequences, but by the authority of the One who gives the command.

Dare we look inward to see if we’re guilty of the “hideousness of the sin of self-righteousness”?

The problem with self righteousness is that it seems almost impossible to recognize in ourselves.

We will own up to almost any other sin, but not the sin of self-righteousness.

When we have this attitude, though, we deprive ourselves of the joy of living in the grace of  God. Because, you see, grace is only for sinners.

And while we are new creations in Christ—saints standing guilt-free before God because of Christ’s blood—we do still sin.

We still need grace.

Bridges quotes a Puritan preacher: “Even our tears of repentance need to be washed in the blood of the Lamb.”

So ends Chapter Two with this:

So our best works can never earn us one bit of favor with God.

Let us then turn our attention from our own performance, whether it seems good or bad to us, and look to the gospel of Jesus Christ, which is God’s provision for our sin, not only on the day we trusted Christ for our salvation but every day of our Christian lives.

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Do you struggle with self-righteousness, too?

Summary of Chapter Two at Challies, “The Pharisee and the Tax Collector

[NEXT WEEK: Chapter Three, “Preach the Gospel to Yourself”]

Chapter One, “How Good Is Good Enough?”
All chapter summaries

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Oh i am gonna look for this for the Nook! i just fnished his book Respectable Sins (uploaded to my hubby's nook because i didn't wanna buy the hardcover!) and it was excellent...in fact i did a review of it on my own blog. This one sounds just as good!!! And has much stuff to "chew " on I'm sure!! thanks for posting!!
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I think you'll like this one, Faith. I only started reading Jerry Bridges' books a couple years ago, but have loved every one I've read.

But "Respectable Sins" is one that I have NOT read but probably have had on my list the longest--must get to that one very soon! I'll have to hop over and read your review to whet my appetite for it again.
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Ouch... I struggle with those things... Humility is easy in some things, but not all things. It truly is a struggle to know things, things revealed by our Father, and not feel special in the wrong ways...

But by the grace of God... there go i.... I have to remind myself of this fact. Thanks for reminding me today. Uncomfortable, but needed. Thanks for sharing the tough stuff Lisa.
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I agree; this is tough stuff, Floyd. Who wants to think they are self-righteous? It's the ultimate in admitting we're full of pride. :-( Yet...who among us isn't still too full of pride? Count me in. Sigh.

Grace...He pours out so much grace...
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•resentment
•bitterness
•an unforgiving spirit
•impatience
•irritability
It is these sin that will lead to our and others destructions if left to fester in our hearts. They are sins rooted in self, it's all about me sin. The enemy of our soul loves it when Christians do not take these sin seriouly. It is these sins the send more missionaries home from their field of service then illness, lack of money or danger. Good post, one we needed reminded of. Blessings.
1 reply · active 661 weeks ago
Good point, Betty: these sins definitely can lead to destruction if we don't let the Spirit deal with them in us just because we think they're "not important" sins. Definitely all rooted in "me", the hardest place to clean up.
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I know I've definitely been guilty of self-righteousness. It is always a battle for me. I enjoy the books of Jerry Bridges. They are very challenging.
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Yes, his books are so challenging. I'm also reading his year-long devotional "Holiness Day-by-Day" that contains excerpts from several of his books, and almost each day I'm pricked about something. That's a good thing, but not an easy thing. :-)
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It took me 20 years to come Jesus because I was so busy being a good girl. All we like sheep have gone astray, we have turned every one to his OWN WAY. My "way" looked awfully good, but I was in spiritual ICU with a clogged neck. . .all the knowledge was in my head, and none had made its way down to my heart, hands, and feet. I still battle impatience, irritability, and a critical spirit daily, and only find victory through saturating myself in the Word. Thank you for sharing what God is teaching you -- your words inspire and convict me regularly.
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"in spiritual ICU with a clogged neck"

Oh, my, Rebecca. You paint such a vivid and accurate picture of how many of us have lived...having so much knowledge clogged up in our head instead of letting it flow freely throughout our whole being.

I'm still not where I want to be in letting the Word penetrate my heart as much as He wants to, but I thank Him for the measure it has happened.

I appreciate your words of encouragement; I value what you share.
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