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cushman-crowdMy husband is a collector.

To me, his treasures are just piles of rusty metal.
To him, they’re opportunities.

He started through his dad and a family friend. At first it was vintage bicycles he’d clean and restore. Then he moved to motorized bikes (Whizzers, anyone?) and next on to Cushman Motor Scooters. cushman-motor-scooters

The men and their wives (often including me and the kids) would go to swap meets to buy and sell and talk and ride. (Well, I’d go to read by day and keep him company by night.)

His dad and the family friend aren’t as active in the collecting anymore. But Jeff still is. He’s bought up truckloads of parts and sold just as many.

He calls it his hobby.
I call it his ministry.

Because when he drives in to a meet with his truck and trailer piled high like the Beverly Hillbillies, the old men swarm around. Like bees on an open coke can, they can’t wait to get in.

And as they help him unload, they talk and dicker and swap stories. Jeff, too.

But Jeff being the youngest by a couple of decades, he listens the most. He asks questions. He smiles and marvels and pays attention to the old tales.

He thinks he’s just doing business. But I know he’s making friends. Collecting them.

These elderly gentlemen are more than relics of rusty bodies to him. Each one is a treasure full of interesting histories to share and life yet to be lived. A friend to be made.

This weekend Jeff’s opportunities are in Perry, Georgia, at the Cushman Club of America’s National Meet (I bet you didn’t know it was this weekend!).

As we drove into Perry on Friday, I asked Jeff how it felt to know his arrival would be so anticipated, to know that what he had was what they wanted?

With no hesitation, he answered by asking how I feel when he sees me every afternoon as he comes in from work. He’s always excited to arrive home to see me because I have what he needs, I am what he wants. Touché, my sweet husband.

What I see as a tired, frumpy, middle-aged woman, he sees as his treasure. I’m not just his cook and cleaner, I’m the woman he delights in loving. The one he ministers to.

Whatever we do, if we do it with a purpose beyond the obvious, deeper than the world does it, with more meaning because we belong to Christ, we sanctify it as ministry. A calling that not only brings joy to the recipient, but glory to the Father.

It’s Saturday afternoon in Perry and the rain is starting to fall. It’s not good for selling Cushman parts. But it’s good for sitting together under awnings.
Talking . . .
Listening . . .
Ministering.

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What hobby is also your ministry?

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I really enjoyed this insight into your husband's hobby/ministry.
1 reply · active 669 weeks ago
Thanks, Elizabeth. God is very creative in using all kinds of hobbies. ;-)
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Lisa, thank you so much for your encouraging words on my blog. I appreciate the prayers. I love the way your husband anticipates seeing you. Its so sweet. I always look forward to reading your posts. Once again thank you so much for the prayers.
1 reply · active 669 weeks ago
You're welcome, Madonna. My heart continues to go out to you and my prayers go up. Praying blessings of peace for you... Keep hanging in there, friend!
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Love this post. Thoughtful. Sweet. Genuine. Happy. :)
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1 reply · active 669 weeks ago
Thanks, Virginia. Seeing the joy my husband gets from his hobby makes me happy. :)
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"Deeper than the world does it." Yes, that's what we are called to do and be for the One who gives us grace. I love the story and respect for your husband who adores you.

My ministry is sometimes in a gym, a lacrosse field, or even a blog. It is a blessing when we do it "deeper than the world."

Awesome post.
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1 reply · active 669 weeks ago
I haven't seen you in the gym or lacrosse field (I'm not sure I'd recognize one if I saw it!), but I have seen you minister every time I read your blog. Thanks, Floyd. Keep going deeper, brother. The Rock is our foundation.
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I found much beauty in this story of love. My husband is a talker, and once he's made a friend it's interesting how closely he listens. People--that's his hobby. He collects them. Seriously. He talks until he finds their common ground. And then...well, he ministers through it. whether by encouragement or sharing his Jesus. Amazing how that happens.
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Your husband sounds like such a godly man with a mission. I like to learn from people like him and my husband who have such a passion for people. Thanks for sharing, Pamela.
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What a wonderful vision you have of your husband's hobby being a ministry too. It is great and I am sure those older men just love the time and attention he gives them. Thanks for sharing this....oh and one of my hobbies is to write and send cards and notes of encouragement. I love buying and making cards although have not done much of the latter lately. It is fun to send them off to people who are homebound or lonely epecially.
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Your hobby/ministry is a wonderful one, Renee, and one that I hope is not going to die out with all our technology. I love getting a good email or text (anytime!), but I still have a soft spot for receiving a card or letter that I can hold on to and put in my special box. May the Lord continue to inspire you to serve others in this way!
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Sweet post! Both in how anything can be a ministry and in how your husband anticipates seeing you when he comes home.
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1 reply · active 669 weeks ago
I'm not sure why Jeff enjoys coming home to me so much. ha. He's a much nicer man than I am a nice woman. :-)

I love how the Lord has used blogging as ministry. I have certainly been blessed through your ministry of using words.
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What a lovely post. How blessed you are that your husband delights in you so!
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I am blessed indeed. Never anything I deserve; it's all grace!
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He must like watching American Pickers:)He must hear amazing stories. Enjoyed visiting today:)
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1 reply · active 669 weeks ago
Don't you know it! ha. He loves American Pickers--one of his favorite shows. We've been to their store in Nashville, but didn't buy anything (we have enough junk as it is--did I just say that?).
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I was so blessed as I read this post, Lisa. So many times I hear wives who are disgruntled by their husband's "hobbies". It was so refreshing to come here and 'hear' you speaking fondly and with appreciation for the way you see the Lord using your husband in his "hobby"...especially loved "he's collecting friends". Hugs to you!
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Thanks, Dianna. Sometimes it's hard to appreciate our individual interests, but if I like him to appreciate mine, I know he likes me to appreciate his too. As much as we can anyway. :)
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How beautiful that your question revealed more about your hubby's heart for you than you ever expected or knew. You found treasure, just as he treasures you. Thanks for this sweet post about the man you love, Lisa!
1 reply · active 669 weeks ago
He definitely is the man I love. Glad that comes through.
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Best part....YOU going with him... hands down. So neat. just a sign - a show of support...even if you aren't into Cushman...you are definitely into what makes him happy and tick a little bit faster...love it. Kurt's interest in target practice is just not something I feel comfortable with and am happy for Kam to share that as guy (father son time)...they are talking about kayaking now, and I suppose I could go and give it a try???? Your post is encouraging me...giving me a nudge... wherever we go and whoever we come into contact with and can talk shop... (whatever that may be....) it's the common interest that builds the bridge, and then the conversations can cross into other territories...and thus...possible ministry opportunities and blessings....yes. Hugs to you Lisa..enjoyed the post and the picture! and the Touche part! ;-) xoxo
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Kayaking would be pushing me a bit far too, unless it's down a quiet, lazy river, but I'm guessing a leisurely drift probably isn't what your men have in mind. :-) Maybe you can show support in another way: pack them a lunchbag or something. ha.
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So very true! Everything we do, every life we touch is ministering. We have the opportunity to leave an indelible fingerprint on everyone we come in contact with! Thank you for sharing today!
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really appreciated your husband's view on his hobby/ministry and on you...so sweet...can see your smile from here :) Blessings, Lisa :)
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I loved your insight into your husband's hobby. I also love how you support him. A recipe for a great marriage/ministry!

Blessings~
Shari
I love how your Jeff answered your question--what a sweetheart. This is a tender way to look at his passions, Lisa. You've inspired me to look at some of the hobbies my Jeff has--he collects lots of people along the way too. Very sweet.
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