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Quit going to church

That’s what he says.

What author Bob Hostetler wants you to do is start being the church. Quit-Going-to-Church-Bob-Hostetler

I need to quit “going to church” and start following Jesus.

I need to quit “going to church” and seek the kingdom of God.

I need to quit going to church and devote myself to the Word of God, to living in community with God’s people, to worshipping him wholeheartedly, to drawing close to him in prayer, and to going public, reaching out and sharing it all with the world around me.

And while you’re quitting, here are a few more habits he suggests you drop.

  • Quit saying your prayers...and start keeping company with God.
  • Quit fellowshipping...and learn how to really party instead. 
  • Quit trying to be good...and instead focus on dwelling daily in Jesus’ presence.

There’s more. Quit tithing. Quit volunteering. Quit helping the poor. I couldn’t always see where Hostetler was going at first, but he always made it clear in the end.

Quit reading your Bible
Surely not. But what if instead of reading, you listened for God’s voice in every line, every word? Let the Bible be an instrument for relationship.

Moses said, “Teach me your ways.”

Why? So I can be entertained? So I can escape from my problems? So I can get information? Instruction? Inspiration?

No. He said, “Teach me your ways so I may know you.”

Quit sharing your faith
Share your life instead.

Jesus wants us to be like him. He wants us to risk our reputations. He wants us to earn criticism from religious folk. He wants us to eat and drink with tax collectors and “sinners.”

He wants us to get out of our tidy Christian ghetto and hang out with people who are far from God...not to judge them, not to demand some Christian standard of behavior from them, not to look down our noses at them, but to actually and really be their friends, accepting them, relating to them, expressing genuine interest in what they think and what they enjoy, and not trying to squeeze them into our mold, but sharing our lives with them.

Quit being nice
Yep.

I believe Jesus calls us to conform to his image, not to our pseudo-Christian portraits of him.

He does not call us to be nice.
He calls us to be real.

It started when Adam and Eve sinned, and tried to hide this major relationship problem with God. Because they were scared.

And we’ve been hiding ever since. That is the main reason we are so “nice.” We are afraid. Of all kinds of things. ...We fear exposure. ...We fear rejection. ...We fear being overlooked.

Instead, we can learn to be honest about who we are, and learn to love from that center, as Jesus did.

So don’t let the title Quit Going to Church mislead you. Yes, Hostetler has a lot to say about quitting in this book, but he has more to say about living and loving like Jesus.

And if that means quitting the status quo, then quit.
Now

And start something better instead.

* * *

Is there something you need to quit doing and start something else?

My thanks to ACU Press & Leafwood Publishers
for the review copy of this book

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The title to your post got me interested to find out what you meant by that. I will have to check out this book as I believe we do need to live in relationship with Christ and less with the rules and ways of acting as a Christian. When we truly surrender to Him, He will live in us and through us and that impacts those around us.

Blessings and love,
Debbie
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1 reply · active 672 weeks ago
The title caught me from the get-go, too. I think you would appreciate the book because it is about truly living our Christianity, not just going through the motions. You're a great example of that love-in-action.
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It sounds like the basic message is something like "stop going through the motions and get back to the heart of what we do and why." A much-needed message for sure. I would have been put off by what seemed like shock-value of the title at first, but I do get what he's saying. Thanks for the review!
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1 reply · active 672 weeks ago
You are exactly right on that basic message. I keep thinking about this Acappella/AVB song:

"You can't go to church as some people say
The common terminology we use everyday
You can go to a building, that is something you can do
But you can't go to church 'cause the church is you"

Same point.
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Wow. just wow. Lisa, I think I'll have to add this to my read this Summer list. Our pastor has been saying 'doan goda cherch, beda cherch' for about 6 months now. Wonder if he read this book?
thanks for sharing.
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1 reply · active 672 weeks ago
I'm guessing your pastor might feel like he wrote a few chapters of this book. :-) If you do read it, I hope you get as much as out of it as I did. It made me think.
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I don't know about quitting something but i do know that since i have been memorizing Matt 5 i have quit reading it and now i am sat at Jesus' feet listening.
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1 reply · active 672 weeks ago
Beautiful response, Beverley. The author of this book (AND the Author of The Book) would be thrilled to hear that, I'm sure!
Oh I DO like this...QUIT.....and START! awesome...I will remember those two words. I think I shall say Quit doing and start being...and fill in the blanks...THANKS Lisa!! :-) xoxo

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1 reply · active 672 weeks ago
I'm trying to think along these lines, too, Julie. Quit one thing and Start a better thing.
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I'm so intrigued by this one!! It sounds like it has a wonderful message.
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1 reply · active 667 weeks ago
It really does have several good messages. Some of the chapter titles caught me off guard, and I'd think, "There's no way he can turn this out right" but he would.

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