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The final word on unity—Jesus

If someone is good enough for God’s dwelling Spirit, then who am I say I’m too good, too right, or too “just” to have fellowship?

How could I ever think I have higher standards than God?
~ Ed Cyzewski, Divided We Unite

I’ve been on both sides of the divide.
•    I didn’t disfellowship a brother whom others had labeled a heretic.
•    And I tried to convert a sister who probably was already saved.

Jesus values unity. Enough that he prayed for it in his final hours before heading to the cross (John 17:23).

But what does unity mean? 
It does NOT mean total agreement in theology.
It does NOT mean being more loyal to your church than you are to your God.
It does NOT mean proving you have the right answers instead of the right Savior.

Ed Cyzewski points that out in his new eBook, Divided We Unite. He also points out that unity DOES mean sharing a common center—Jesus Christ.

Yes. Please.

Christian unity does not come from our heads. Unity isn’t a list of bullet points. Unity comes from the life of God’s Spirit within us.

Our fights and divisions can’t undo the presence of God among his people.

If you and I are both in Christ, we already are united. Even if we don’t see it. Or act like it.

But He wants us to. It’s an important part of our witness to the world—of His divinity and of His love.

Living in unity does not rest on whether we can see enough of our own beliefs in one another but whether we can see enough of God's Spirit among the members of our Christian family.

Chapter 8 in Ed’s book is “The Most Important Chapter.” You’re reminded first of The Big Idea:

Christians are more united and divided than we often think. We cannot undo the unity that comes through God's Spirit, but we can let our divisions interfere with the work God's Spirit wants to do among us.

And then you’re given several Next Step Ideas.
Challenges like:

  1. Pray for enemies and challenging people
  2. Find the best representatives for your opponents
  3. Share a meal with those from different perspectives
  4. Learn to play with ideas
  5. Research one church father
  6. Minister with different Christians
  7. Learn stories
  8. Practice waiting
  9. Keep serious disagreements private
  10. When you are upset, ask yourself: “Why?”

What if we each chose at least one idea to follow through on this week? Would the world see more unity among believers? Would the Father’s name be honored more from seeing more of our love?

Just a few months ago I seized an opportunity to apologize to the Christian sister I had previously condemned to hell (at least in my mind) when we were younger because of our different denominations. She smiled. All had been forgiven long ago.

She knew we were already united, even way back then. It just took me longer to see it.

Now that I do, I’m humbled—and strengthened—by our unity.

Unity is an intentional and sometimes costly practice that demands all of the cross carrying and dying to ourselves that we can handle. We don’t create unity on our own. That’s God’s work.

However, we can remove the obstacles we set up and give grace to those in God’s family who hold to different beliefs. Our divisions are real, but God’s unifying Spirit shows us that the divides between us are not as wide as we imagine.

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Which of the 10 suggestions might you try this week?

Divided We UniteI highly recommend Ed’s eBook.
For a limited time it’s free when you subscribe to his e-newsletter.
And only $1.99 at Amazon.

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We often write people off as not being a Christian, because they fail in some areas. More than once I have seen them hit bottom, and in later days return to the Lord. Thank you for your comments on my post. Our three children reached teen age, but we had two others in our home. One was a brother-in-law my son's age, and the other was our Foster daughter Nancy.
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I agree, Hazel. I have personally written off too many people in my lifetime. I thank God for helping me discover grace, not only for myself but to give to others who might do things and believe things a little differently from me.
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Hi, what prompted this post?

Jennifer Dougan www.jenniferdougan.com
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I downloaded Ed's book last week and finished it this week so I wanted to do a review of it. That's all. No hidden messages or lurking issues. :-) (Although I'm sure I could always dig up a few if I tried, so I better not try. ha).
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Well I do minister with other Christians -- I work in a Christian daycare, not of my denomination, and work with many that are from a variety of denominations. So I don't think that is new to me....

I love hearing stories....the life of people and how God is at work in each person's life. Maybe that is key this week, find out someone's story that I don't know about.

This book sound really good, I will have to keep an eye out for it.
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That's good, Katie. Working with others from a variety of denominations has been very helpful to me, too. It really expanded my own views of how Christianity can work.

I love listening to God stories too. It hope you hear some good ones this week!
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I've learned, too, over the years that I can fellowship with a wide variety of people with whom I may have a difference of belief and practice, and it's so enriching.

But (you know me, I always have to be cautious of the other extreme of things) I've heard and read of people talking about "loving Jesus" when the rest of what they preach and teach is far afield from Bible doctrine -- not just the areas where good people can differ and still be friends, but the basic fundamentals like who Jesus is, how one can be saved, whether the Bible is the Word of God, etc. While I still don't "write off" those people, and I try to maintain contact and love them and hope to help point them back to Bible truth, I don't embrace them in Christian unity, either. There are instances when the Bible talks about separating even from Christian brethren (II Thess. 3:6, 14-15; I Cor. 5:1-13; I Timothy 1:19-20).

On the other hand, I've known people who seem to "major" in separation and not fellowship with anyone except those who believe on every little point just like they do, forgetting Romans 14 and other passages.about unity, and that extreme is wrong, too. Biblical discernment and balance is so needful in every area
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You play an important role of balancer, Barbara. Sometimes I take for granted that everyone would agree on those basics so I don't mention them (for instance, "Jesus is the Son of God"), but that's not always a wise assumption for me to make. So thanks for pointing it out. You're doing a good thing. :-)
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"See God in all, serve God in all and love God in all...we must keep a spirit of Christian love and tolerance toward one another.
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We do need to see each other through the eyes of Christ. If we could do that more consistently, we would all behave more lovingly.
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great message. If we stick together...can you image the power force we'd be. Unity....love it. Have a beautiful week.
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It is hard to even imagine. Wouldn't it be incredible???
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Good one!...Well...I JUST got a call and invite.....I am going to join a Bible Study (Beth Moore) group of neighbor girls tonight...meeting right across the street from me. I find that whenever I get into a mixed group of girls with different homelife..different season, different denomination, different marital status...different background, different personality.....it is always interesting and quite the variety when sharing...
so this will be, I believe, my intentional act to see and embrace "unity", Lisa...spot on today...wow...thanks for the motivation! Hugs to you....Julie xo
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Oh, I love this, Julie. What a great example of unity. I'm so glad the Lord sent you the opportunity, and that you are able and willing to take Him up on it! May He bless your time with your neighbors. Keep me posted on how it goes!
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Hm. Some good stuff to ponder. It's far too easy for me to jump to "division" and to set standards that are more MY standards than God's standards. Thanks for the encouragement toward unity!
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I think we all tend to do that--substitute our own standards as if they were God's. That comes most naturally to me, so I have to fight against it too.
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LisaNotes,

My pleasure. Thank you for partnering with other youth pastors and their families. Friendships for ministry families are special.

Jennifer Dougan www.jenniferdougan.com
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no more strangers but fellow citizens with God - I have a problem with a sister at the moment and the spirit just keep saying 'you are her and she is not you, what you can do she can't and vice-versa'. God knows me and I'm grateful for that.
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I am grateful too that God knows each one of us inside and out, and he knows how to meet each of our needs in just the right way.

I pray that you and the sister work things out as well as possible. It's not always easy or quick...
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I always appreciate your humility. It reminds me of what we all, myself at the top of the list, need to be. I like you, had many friends that were and are from different denominations. I've learned to disagree with joy really. I don't question their heart, their actions for God prove them out. I'll continue to pray for my enemies... Seems I have a lot more of those than I ever thought possible...
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Praying for your enemies...it's good that you continue to do that. I often forget to pray for those who annoy me or make life hard or whatever...but in a form, they are "enemies" too and I need to be praying for them as well.
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That sounds like a great book. Thanks for the recommendation! I just downloaded it and look forward to reading it.

As a woman who feels called to ministry (even if I'm still not sure exactly what form that ministry is taking), I have experienced a lot of disunity in the body of Christ. Even though I learned long ago not to take it personally, it still pains me that we Christians (and I include myself) can be so hard on each other sometimes.
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I agree with you--sometimes we're hardest on each other. And I try not to take it personally either, although it does hurt personally when I see so many gifts unused by my fellow sisters that could be used to honor the Lord.

I haven't quite figured out my church's stand on women's roles yet; I think the public view is more conservative than the individual private views, which leads to dysfunction when the two don't match. There's a huge fear of "what someone might think" if a woman actually were to make an announcement on a Sunday morning (for example), even though 99% of the people there wouldn't think it's "wrong." So if a woman needs an announcement made about a wedding shower or whatever, she gets a man to read the words for her.

We've been promised an upcoming study on women's roles once the elders work it out, but it's been a long time coming and I don't see it scheduled anytime soon. I'm holding out for it though. It will eventually come. You hang in there too!
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I like what one preacher said. Wherever God has a son or daughter, I have a brother or sister. Agreeing on every point of doctrine is an impossibility. Sometimes I'm not even sure I agree with myself on everything. Thank you for sharing.
Blessings,
Charlotte
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Ha. I'm with you, Charlotte--I don't even agree with myself sometimes either. Nor my self from 10 years ago. And thus, myself 10 years from now.
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