If someone is good enough for God’s dwelling Spirit, then who am I say I’m too good, too right, or too “just” to have fellowship?
How could I ever think I have higher standards than God?
~ Ed Cyzewski, Divided We Unite
I’ve been on both sides of the divide.
• I didn’t disfellowship a brother whom others had labeled a heretic.
• And I tried to convert a sister who probably was already saved.
Jesus values unity. Enough that he prayed for it in his final hours before heading to the cross (John 17:23).
But what does unity mean?
It does NOT mean total agreement in theology.
It does NOT mean being more loyal to your church than you are to your God.
It does NOT mean proving you have the right answers instead of the right Savior.
Ed Cyzewski points that out in his new eBook, Divided We Unite. He also points out that unity DOES mean sharing a common center—Jesus Christ.
Yes. Please.
Christian unity does not come from our heads. Unity isn’t a list of bullet points. Unity comes from the life of God’s Spirit within us.
Our fights and divisions can’t undo the presence of God among his people.
If you and I are both in Christ, we already are united. Even if we don’t see it. Or act like it.
But He wants us to. It’s an important part of our witness to the world—of His divinity and of His love.
Living in unity does not rest on whether we can see enough of our own beliefs in one another but whether we can see enough of God's Spirit among the members of our Christian family.
Chapter 8 in Ed’s book is “The Most Important Chapter.” You’re reminded first of The Big Idea:
Christians are more united and divided than we often think. We cannot undo the unity that comes through God's Spirit, but we can let our divisions interfere with the work God's Spirit wants to do among us.
And then you’re given several Next Step Ideas.
Challenges like:
- Pray for enemies and challenging people
- Find the best representatives for your opponents
- Share a meal with those from different perspectives
- Learn to play with ideas
- Research one church father
- Minister with different Christians
- Learn stories
- Practice waiting
- Keep serious disagreements private
- When you are upset, ask yourself: “Why?”
What if we each chose at least one idea to follow through on this week? Would the world see more unity among believers? Would the Father’s name be honored more from seeing more of our love?
Just a few months ago I seized an opportunity to apologize to the Christian sister I had previously condemned to hell (at least in my mind) when we were younger because of our different denominations. She smiled. All had been forgiven long ago.
She knew we were already united, even way back then. It just took me longer to see it.
Now that I do, I’m humbled—and strengthened—by our unity.
Unity is an intentional and sometimes costly practice that demands all of the cross carrying and dying to ourselves that we can handle. We don’t create unity on our own. That’s God’s work.
However, we can remove the obstacles we set up and give grace to those in God’s family who hold to different beliefs. Our divisions are real, but God’s unifying Spirit shows us that the divides between us are not as wide as we imagine.
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Which of the 10 suggestions might you try this week?
I highly recommend Ed’s eBook.
For a limited time it’s free when you subscribe to his e-newsletter.
And only $1.99 at Amazon.
Hazel Moon · 692 weeks ago
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Katie · 692 weeks ago
I love hearing stories....the life of people and how God is at work in each person's life. Maybe that is key this week, find out someone's story that I don't know about.
This book sound really good, I will have to keep an eye out for it.
Lisa notes 103p · 692 weeks ago
I love listening to God stories too. It hope you hear some good ones this week!
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barbarah 65p · 692 weeks ago
But (you know me, I always have to be cautious of the other extreme of things) I've heard and read of people talking about "loving Jesus" when the rest of what they preach and teach is far afield from Bible doctrine -- not just the areas where good people can differ and still be friends, but the basic fundamentals like who Jesus is, how one can be saved, whether the Bible is the Word of God, etc. While I still don't "write off" those people, and I try to maintain contact and love them and hope to help point them back to Bible truth, I don't embrace them in Christian unity, either. There are instances when the Bible talks about separating even from Christian brethren (II Thess. 3:6, 14-15; I Cor. 5:1-13; I Timothy 1:19-20).
On the other hand, I've known people who seem to "major" in separation and not fellowship with anyone except those who believe on every little point just like they do, forgetting Romans 14 and other passages.about unity, and that extreme is wrong, too. Biblical discernment and balance is so needful in every area
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Julie · 692 weeks ago
so this will be, I believe, my intentional act to see and embrace "unity", Lisa...spot on today...wow...thanks for the motivation! Hugs to you....Julie xo
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julie in memphis · 691 weeks ago
As a woman who feels called to ministry (even if I'm still not sure exactly what form that ministry is taking), I have experienced a lot of disunity in the body of Christ. Even though I learned long ago not to take it personally, it still pains me that we Christians (and I include myself) can be so hard on each other sometimes.
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Lisa notes 103p · 691 weeks ago
I haven't quite figured out my church's stand on women's roles yet; I think the public view is more conservative than the individual private views, which leads to dysfunction when the two don't match. There's a huge fear of "what someone might think" if a woman actually were to make an announcement on a Sunday morning (for example), even though 99% of the people there wouldn't think it's "wrong." So if a woman needs an announcement made about a wedding shower or whatever, she gets a man to read the words for her.
We've been promised an upcoming study on women's roles once the elders work it out, but it's been a long time coming and I don't see it scheduled anytime soon. I'm holding out for it though. It will eventually come. You hang in there too!
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