What to do when it’s just not the same

no, it’s not exactly like you want it

there’s somebody missing you want to be visible
there’s somebody extra you wish were absent
you don’t feel quite as good as you’d like to
and you’re hoping you don’t catch that cousin’s cough

the conversation has some low points
maybe you should have sat at the other table
your stomach hurts from pre-dinner snacking
topped by three specialty post-dinner desserts

it’s just not the same

as when

what year was perfect

none before
none after
none until we feast at the ultimate table
prepared by the ultimate Host

so you
give
thanks
anyway

for those gathered around that you can touch
for those elsewhere still touching you
be grateful for the body you have
and for the body you don’t have

bring your special voice to the table
and gratefully take turns with silence
say grace over the food you get to eat
and for the food you don’t have to

be thankful
for the differences
this year
like every year

there’s only one constant
one who never changes
it’s the Giver

every year thank Him

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Friends,
I’m praying your day is blessed as you give thanks to Him.