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“Before you go, can I ask one more question?”

I knew Gary wouldn’t mind. Even though we’d only met an hour earlier, he’d already shared so much. This final question would be a pleasing one to him. And the answer would mean much to me.

The first question had come easily. He’d exposed an obvious opening, reading his Bible as he waited for the food we were serving the homeless.

I asked, “So what are you reading?”

Gary-and-his-bible

That was all it took. If I remember right, he was in Isaiah, but he seized the moment and flipped over to other related passages, giving clear explanations for each. His Bible was heavily colored with highlighters and ink.

I asked, “Are you a student?”

No, he said he was actually a Bible teacher. (My bad. I’m still learning: Never make assumptions about the homeless, well, about anybody.) I asked him if he’d always known Jesus, even as a child, and again he answered no.

He used to be a witch.

Oh. So I asked, “What changed that?”

He said he’d walked through the desert. 

He told me about his journey on the road from Texas to San Francisco. About his friend and about LSD. Then about reading his Bible for a whole year. And about finding truth. And finding Jesus.

His life was new. He learned then taught at a Bible school for eight years in California. He was recently released from the position when they decided he was too mystical to teach there.

He said he was big into spiritual warfare. He flipped to underlined verses and margin notes he’d scribbled around Ephesians 6. We talked about wearing the armor of God and what each piece meant and how important it was.

But he was almost out the door to catch the bus back to wherever he came from (and eventually back to family in North Carolina, hopefully) when I caught his attention one last time to ask my final question:

“Hey Gary, would you share with me your favorite Bible verse?”

I knew it’d tell me the most about Gary. The truths we treasure the greatest, reveal our greatest treasures.

“It’s Matthew 24:13.” And he quoted it,

But the one who stands firm to the end will be saved.
Matthew 24:13 (NIV)

That’s what Gary was most about. Just standing in Jesus. Against the devil’s schemes. Firm to the end (Ephesians 6:11-13).

I don’t know all the warfare that’s come against Gary. That comes against him still.

And I don’t know if our paths will ever cross again. Sometimes one intersection is all we get, and this may have been ours.

But at that junction and for that moment, hearing that answer from Gary about what counts most may have been enough for a lifetime.

So Gary, wherever you are tonight, I pray you’re doing what matters the most. Stand firm to the end, my brother.

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Do you have a favorite Bible verse? Why is it special to you?

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I love this conversation you had with Gary, Lisa. You have such an amazingly generous and loving heart, girl - I so appreciate and admire that about you.

I'm not sure about a favorite Bible verse ... I don't think I know the Bible well enough to have a favorite. I do love Joshua 1:9: "Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.”

But then I read this just this morning from 2 Corinthians, and it spoke SO strongly to me:

"I can’t tell you how much I long for you to enter this wide-open, spacious life. We didn’t fence you in. The smallness you feel comes from within you. Your lives aren’t small, but you’re living them in a small way. I’m speaking as plainly as I can and with great affection. Open up your lives. Live openly and expansively!" (2 Corinthians 6:11-13, The Msg.)

I needed those verses this morning, and I think I will cling to them for the time being.

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I don't have an absolute favorite either because my "favorite" tends to change with what I'm going through. Love what you shared here, especially in that version. Makes it so real--"Live opening and expansively!"

I was reading in 2 Corinthians this morning as well! I came across one of my favorites from last year: "All of God's promises have their yes in him. That is why we say amen through him to the glory of God." I don't totally understand all the implications of it, but I love the overall concept.
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This is delightful. I especially appreciate how you understand that "the homeless" are a truly diverse group and may be as likely to minister to you as you to them!
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I've been slow to realize that diversity though. :-( For most of my life I've lumped them in a single stereotype, but I am very grateful now to realize how unique each story is. And yes, I am definitely being ministered to by them. All is grace. Thanks, Helene.
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Ooh, don't be amazed at MY courage, Mary. :-( It's slim. Truly. As I was telling the lady I rode with on Saturday to the homeless camp, I really need other people around me to step out into those kinds of situations. I would never be brave enough to initiate it or do it on my own.

I love that you remember your verse still from Amy's time. Such a beautiful one. When I was reading 2 Corinthians this morning, I ran across this verse that I wrestled with after Kali's death: 2 Cor 1:4 "He's the one who comforts us in all our trouble so that we can comfort other people who are in every kind of trouble. We offer the same comfort that we ourselves received from God." I remember calling out to him, "Where is that comfort from you? I'm not feeling it!" It took me quite awhile to realize that he was giving it to me, but I was in such pain that it took awhile for it to sink in. So thankful that he was patient with me.
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I too loved this story and may we all learn from him that we must stand firm until the end.
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Yes, isn't that a beautiful theme?--Stand firm until the end. I've been hearing it from different places lately which always means I best pay attention! :-)
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I love how you model a way to start a spiritual conversation with a stranger. What a talk you and Gary had!

I'm not a "favorites" person--my favorite varies depending on life's circumstances, but here's one of my favorites: Ephesians 3:16-19 "I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the saints, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge--that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God." What better prayer can you pray?
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I agree--can there be a better prayer than that? Lovely. Thanks for sharing from Ephesians. Such rich language and truths are in that passage. We are loved beyond measure!
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Dear Lisa
What a wonderful encounter you had with Gary and you are so right. I am sure that he faces a lot of warfare due to his past, but that verse that is his favorite, shows to me that he knows how to fight this battle. I used to try and resist the devil so often in the past with no success until I realized that I didn't knw how to first truly submit to our Lord. I asked Him to teach me and I know now that only as we rest in Him will the battle not be ours, but the Lord's.
Blessings and a wonderful week to you
Mia
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Yes--the battle is his, not ours. I love this verse: 2 Chronicles 20:15 "...Thus says the LORD to you, 'Do not be afraid and do not be dismayed at this great horde, for the battle is not yours but God's."

I know it was written to a specific person at a specific time, but I do believe it is a general principle that we can all learn from. The Lord wants us to run to him, and it's in that refuge that we are strongest and safest.

Thanks for sharing this, Mia. May you have a blessed week too!

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This is great, Lisa. I love how you soak up life and interact with such kindness and generosity to all you meet. I'm certain he felt blessed by the encounter. My favorite verse is very similar to his - 1 Cor. 15:58 "Therefore, stand firm! Let nothing move you. Always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord, because you know that your labor in the Lord is not in vain."
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A perfect match, Beth! What a great verse to have as a favorite. Thanks for sharing it. What grace that the Lord can take all our measly efforts and make them count for something.
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"Sometimes one intersection is all we get." Glad you paid close attention to this passing, Lisa, and great questions to reveal the heart of a brother. Not a chance meeting, they never are. They are always opportunities to grow, become wiser, and maybe more compassionate.

Although it sounds cliche', my favoriter verse in all of scripture is from the 23rd Psalm, "Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil for YOU are with me."

Thanks for sharing and serving, Lisa. God is using it in more ways than you or any of us might imagine.
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I'm glad you shared that verse from Ps 23, Floyd. It is full of meaning. One of our worship leaders sent us a text of Psalm 23 yesterday morning before our worship services. It was from the Message, and that part of your verse comes out like this: "Even when the way goes through Death Valley, I'm not afraid when you walk at my side." Not quite as poetic, but equally impactful. So glad we don't have to do this journey alone!

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Keith Lancaster · 623 weeks ago

Proverbs 16:3 " Commit to the LORD whatever you do, and your plans will succeed." Many times after concerts, young folks would ask the singers for an autograph. Prov 16:3 was my favorite verse to include.

At one event, I remember adding this verse under my signature for a young lad, who was probably seven years old. A problem arose that day as my hand writing was not the most legible. I liked to abbreviate Proverbs to Prov; but on this occasion, I inadvertently connected the "P" to the "r," which made the "P" appear to be an "R." This would have transformed the abbreviation to appear as "Rev" (Revelation 16:3).

A short time after the autograph, the boy returned with horror on his face to aske me, "What does this mean?" His question seemed to imply that I wished to place a curse on him. I quickly looked up Rev. 16:3, which says, "The second angel poured out his bowl on the sea, and it turned into blood like that of a dead man, and every living thing in the sea died."

I'm so thankful he returned so I could clarify the mistake! Afterwards, I was much more careful with my penmanship.
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Thanks for sharing your verse and that story, Keith. I can only imagine the shock of being addressed personally with Rev 16:3. So am I to conclude that while we work toward keeping a capella music alive and well, we also need to keep instruction of clear penmanship alive and well, too? :-) I'm afraid the latter is losing the battle.

And one more observation: I'm impressed that the 7-yr-old actually looked up the verse. :-)
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oh man. i'm so ashamed. i didn't even know that verse. praying for gary too, wherever he is... thank you for sharing this dear Lisa. love you.
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There's quite a few great verses out there that don't stay on our radar screen, so you're excused for not knowing this one, Em. :-) Thanks for your prayers for Gary. God hears. Love you.
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Oh may we stand today, but not stoically. I want to stand in joy, and grace, and I want people to want the lightness in my heart. May they be jealous of the intimate relationship with Jesus that shows in the hands, and eyes and attitudes, and may they ask for it.
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I appreciate your words, Barbara, because I haven't thought of *how* we stand. But yes, even the way we stand conveys our hearts. You have a beautiful stance! Blessings, friend.
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"Set your mind on things above, not on things of the earth." Col.3:2 is special to me because it reminds me to look to God. In the midst of life's troubles it is easy to get side-tracked. It reins in my thoughts and causes me to focus on God.
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Wonderful, Lori. So glad you shared that verse. I like getting all kinds of reminders to re-center on our Lord because, yes, it is way too easy to get distracted by a million other things.
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Two questions say everything.
"What are your reading" and "What's your favorite verse"
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The questions might not work for everyone, but they work for me. ;-)
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I love when you share these stories, Lisa. Amazed at the transformation that occurs-on both sides. Ephesians 3:14-21...I'm like you and MIchelle--don't have a favorite, but I prayed this one over my boys for years and years and it has a special place in my heart.
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Transformation on both sides--amen to that, Laura.
Those are beautiful verses to pray over your boys. I'm sure it has already blessed them, but how wonderful that it will continue to be a covering for them for years to come. I'm glad God works both inside and outside of time as we know it.
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What a beautiful story. Love how a simple question can lead to a beautiful exchange...an exchange where we can share the love of our amazing God. The love of our God is revealed through us when we take the time to see another and show compassion. I feel so blessed by your story this morning. I have a hard time deciding on a favorite verse, but one I try to live by is, "We love because He first loved us." (1 John 4:19)
Blessings to you.
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I'm not sure you could have found a more central and life-empowering verse than that one. Thanks for sharing it, Beth!
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A fine intersection, Lisa. A special one. I am glad I came by to find out about Gary and about you in this moment of sharing with him.
One of my favorite verses is Zephaniah 3:17 -
“The Lord your God is in your midst,
A victorious warrior.
He will exult over you with joy,
He will be quiet in His love,
He will rejoice over you with shouts of joy."
I am always amazed that the God of all creation would rejoice over me...me! Praising HIm, ~ linda
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Such an amazingly beautiful verse, Linda. Yes, it is amazing that HE rejoices over US! It's crazy, huh? We have such an awesome God. Thanks for sharing this with me because it makes me smile.
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