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Why break a tradition?

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   “Why do your disciples break the tradition of the elders? For they do not wash their hands when they eat.”
   He answered them, “And why do you break the commandment of God for the sake of your tradition?”

MATTHEW 15:2-3

You know you have them.

Traditions. In your family. At holidays. With the church. They can be wonderful. We can do them from our heart and benefit greatly.

For years I’ve participated in the Lord’s Supper every Sunday morning in basically the same way. First, silently praying while someone prays publicly, then eating a cracker crumb from a plate passed around. Then praying again, and drinking a swallow of grape juice from a tray of cups passed around.

But lately that tradition has been morphing.

Sometimes I tear a hunk of bread shared around a table, then swallow it down with juice from a Dixie cup. Or tear the plastic from a pre-wrapped wafer secured above a sealed cup of juice at my pew. Or this past Sunday, walk a line to dip a torn piece of bread in a cup of juice, then return to my seat and pray with Jeff before eating.

All different. But all good.

It’s when men’s traditions become crystallized as commandments of God we have a problem.

And when we break God’s commandments to maintain men’s traditions we have an even larger problem.

The Pharisees were more interested in looking good on the outside than on obeying God from the heart. Importance was placed on following what was handed down by men.

God desires our hearts, not our rules. He wants our worship, not our customs.

When traditions interfere with putting God first, break them.

Lord,
   Help us honor
you more than our traditions.
   Help us remember
why, not just how.
   May we worship from our hearts, and let go of man-made creeds that interfere, regardless of how attached we’ve become.
   Your will be done. Your glory be magnified.

* * *

Do you have a tradition that needs breaking so you can better obey God?

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And when we break God’s commandments to maintain men’s traditions we have an even larger problem.

This line has me thinking and I'm beginning to squirm a bit! Can I (subtley) disobey God because I think the way God is handling things is too much for me?

Great post. Thank you. I was praying that God would give me direction and He has - through you. :)
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Your “squirming” point is often an issue for me, too, so I’m right there with you. I’ve been thinking yesterday about lies we believe about God, and even though I know better, I still sometimes ask myself, “Doesn’t God care that this is too much for me?” No, it’s not too much, and yes, he cares… praying for grace to trust him more.

A question I will need to ponder and pray.
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It's good to examine our traditions and even preferences to see whether they're Biblical or just the habit of years. In the churches we've been in, every one has handled the Lord's supper a little differently. My favorite way was in the church we attended when we first got married, so I've heard to learn to go with the flow in other churches since then.
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Hmmm, interesting question. I'm not sure, Lisa. I'll have to ponder this one for awhile, but I appreciate the perspective and the insight into traditions. I totally agree that what is supposed to bring us closer to God can replace or eclipse Him. Thanks for stirring my mind and heart!
Great post. This is one of my hot buttons unfortunately. When I hear people tell me about the things that are all about religion as if they were handed down by God, I have to ask them, "Where do you find that in the Bible"? Although I know that all of us are guilty to one degree or another at one time or another. "God looks at the heart."
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tradition or obedience....thanks for sharing these thoughts worth pondering..
I feel like God has come and challenged so many...many traditions in my life...getting me to let go of my grip on how things should be done...and let Him lead me to freedom...so many areas have been turned upside down...but I am so thankful for the freedom this brings...great post...blessings~
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I think there are definitely some modern traditions that would break God's laws but as it states in the Beatitudes 'Whosoever shall break one of these least cammandments and shall teach men to do so shall be called least in the Kingdom of Heaven, but whosoever shall keep them and teach them shall be called great in the Kingdom of Heaven'. Made me think, that's a good thing but if we are doing ti right we shouldn't be ashamed to say so.
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love this post- wonderful insight! such an important concept for us to grab hold of. Keeping our eyes on Jesus is the key - and doing "all for the glory of God" I believe will keep me out of trouble (by that i mean - keep me where He wants me) ;)
I love the play on the word break that you use here, Lisa. I have been especially conscious of my tendency to take traditions and turn them into legalistic meaningless rituals lately. Taking your words to heart, friend.
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Food for Thought for sure!!!...sometimes I think we have gotten so accustomed to some things we are doing as a practice, that we don't even realize we may have become seared to what may be a "wrong" - especially if it is an unguarded laziness or blindness from the heart. !! ~ I have a question for you tonight Lisa. Have you ever heard of the study "Set Apart" by Jennifer Kennedy Dean? I was asked to join a study and I've not heard of it...Know anything about it? **(Thanks!) Hugs to you. xoxo
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No, I've not heard of that study. I like the title though. :-) Let me know if you join the group and what you think of it! I'm on week three of "Nehemiah" by Kelly Minter with my sisters and nieces this summer and it's been a very good study so far.
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I will have to think about your question. I can relate about getting stuck in a rut, going through our own traditions and forgetting the real meaning. Great, thought-provoking post, Lisa!
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