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No multitasking—Lent 2012

Out of a rut

I don’t mind ruts. Not if they’re happy ruts. Efficient ruts. 

But even in those, it’s not a bad thing to get kicked out of them occasionally. For better or worse, I’m outside of a big one.

And because of that, I can’t rely on auto-pilot for that routine.
I have to think harder. I have to be intentional.

Just in time for Lent. Although I’m not Catholic, I find value in observing the 40 weekdays leading up to Easter Sunday.

For fasting. For repentance. For reflection.

multitasking

One thing at a time

This year I want to fast from multitasking. (Thanks a lot, Michelle.)
To repent of my divided, scattered heart.
And to reflect on Jesus.

So instead of many things at once, I will pursue one thing at a time. I’m unsure how to do it. I know I’ll need grace. But I pray I will honor Him.     

It might look like this:

  • turning my phone off during church, not just setting it to silent
  • putting away the newspaper when you call instead of scanning it as we chat
  • choosing to either read or watch a show, not both at the same time
  • closing down e-mail when I’m trying to type up my thoughts
  • picking one major to-do a day instead of four
  • looking my family in the face when they talk instead of glancing at Facebook, too
  • using clocks as a guideline instead of a taskmaster
  • letting bedtime be rest time with no books or podcasts {groan}
  • and, if I get real radical, finishing one book completely before I crack open another

When I pray, focusing attentively. 
When I read, meditating fully.
When I sing, praising completely.

One thing at a time.

One thing I...

So this one thing I do:
     Press on toward the goal (Philippians 3:13-14).

For this one thing I seek:
     To dwell in His presence (Psalm 27:4).

Because this one thing I know:
     I was blind, but now I see (John 9:25).

Jesus, please be my one thing.

* * *

Are you fasting from anything for Lent?

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The Spirit is working on me in this area, too, but I don't have any specific strategies beyond the ones you already list. I'm glad I'm not the only one! I'm looking forward to learning with you as you journey.
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Glad we'll be in this together, Christina. This is going to be quite a challenge for me, but it's through our weaknesses that we see Christ's strength, right? We stand in Him alone.
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What a unique and timely plan! I might steal it....
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Go right ahead, Karen. I stole the idea from what Michelle DeRusha did last year. http://www.michellederusha.com/2011/03/multitask-...

Since it stayed on my mind for a solid year, I figure I'm supposed to do it. :-) Jenna has her doubts that I can do the one book at a time part. ha

Michelle has a free Lenten devotional here. I’m going to try to read it as I go along. http://www.michellederusha.com/p/free-lenten-devo...

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I'm guilty of multi-tasking WAY too much...particularly where my family are concerned. Thanks for sharing this neat idea!
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You're welcome, Melissa. I think most of us are guilty of this.

I pray all is going smoothly with your family.
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God has been putting this on my heart, too, Lisa. But I was afraid to do it because of some of the things I just wasn't willing to give up (like reading the paper while I eat lunch). But after reading this, I think I was being too legalistic about it. The above list is almost like mine and you have given me the courage to live into this goal. It's all about cultivating, which is my word!
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I'm still going to read the morning paper at breakfast. :-) I'm not sure yet where all the boundaries need to be. I'll still sing when I'm driving and listen to music when I'm taking a shower.

Yes, we can go overboard and get so legalistic that it freezes us from moving at all. I don't want to go there. But I do want to do better than I have. I hope this also helps me to "let go of the weighing". It is about cultivating, Jen. Thank you, friend.
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love this! Something I'm working on as well :)
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Good. It is definitely connected to that voice telling us to "just relax." (Loved your letter.)
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My lenten challenge is different, but it is so nice to find others who are not necessarily in a liturgical body right now (such as myself), letting their hearts be molded by this season! I think I will check out Michelle's lenten devotional...
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I started reading Michelle's devotional this morning. Psalm 137 is always such a sad read, but I realize that repentance begins there.

Verse 6 spoke to me the most for my own fast: "May I never be able to sing again if I do not remember you, if I do not think of you as my greatest joy!"

I pray that your challenge will bring you the molding you desire.

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I think some kinds of multi-tasking are good -- like listening to an audiobook while driving or preparing dinner. But I do tend to do it way too much and need to distinguish between those times I can use my mind for one thing while my hands work on another and those times I'm diminishing my attention and effectiveness to both things (or especially people).

I don't usually do anything specific to observe Lent, but I've read Jesus Keep Me Near the Cross compiled by Nancy Guthrie once, maybe twice in the weeks preceding Easter.
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Yeah, I'm going to try to distinguish between which ones are helpful and which ones aren't. The whole thing is a discipline that I'm not really sure how to accomplish but that makes it an even richer one for me to learn in. I typically like to have everything all planned out, but I can't do that so much with this.

I have Nancy's book on my to-read list but haven't gotten a copy yet. One of these days (months, years? who am I kidding? ha).
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That's a great one! Thank you for sharing! Abundant blessings on your lenten journey!
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Thanks, Mari-Anna. I pray the Lord blesses your journey too.
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I like that plane, the idea of focusing. I think that we are a generation of multi-taskers and focusing on the one thing in front of us proves to be challenging and counter-cultural even! I have been praying for you, as you shared you were in the battle, I hope that answers come and that the words of the Spirit are clear and comforting, whatever your situation. May you focus on God's goodness to you today, Lisa. Bless you, Alyssa
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I so appreciate your prayers, Alyssa. I find it no coincidence that this time of focusing is concurrent with the other situation I'm going through. Even today I've felt a new measure of peace about it. God is faithful to answer our prayers!
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What a great endeavor, Lisa! I'll pray for you that this gives you peace and a feeling that Christ is closer than ever before. Beautiful post, as always, my friend!
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Thanks, Beth. I feel like I'm already falling down in my endeavors to do this "right"; I have to let go of my ability to do that, and rest in His presence that I seek instead--not perfect behavior on my part.
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My wife just said to me last night, "Can you get any more irons in your fire"? In business I've learned to juggle many things at once, it's necessary for survival. The problem is it creeps into every aspect of my life. I did manage to get up a little earlier today and read my Bible before I looked at my phone or turned on my computer. A small start I think... Great thoughts driving home my conviction...
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I hear you, Floyd. There are situations that just won't work if we DON'T spin lots of plates at the same time. I think you hit on the thing I'm trying to figure out--deciding which ones. I don't have it figured out yet...

Small starts can lead big places. I try to do what you said...do my daily Bible reading before I turn on my computer or phone, otherwise I get sucked away. I don't want to be legalistic about it, but I do need to discipline myself.

We live in a crazy busy world! I thank God for his grace to help us navigate it.
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I'm not catholic either but i like to observe lent too. My children (adult) gave me the option of no face book or no BFF called Heron because i couldn't decide. Of cause there was no contest Heron was not going anywhere. I am also giving up chocolate covered sugar and i'm certain i could never give up my book before bed.
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I don't know Heron, but I'm guessing you made a wise choice between giving up Facebook or a real person that's your BFF. :-) Chocolate would be hard for me to let go of...

I already wanted to grab my book last night when I was awake at 3 a.m. and could not get back to sleep. I resisted, and tried to go over memory verses in my head instead. I feel pretty weak about all this, but that's probably part of what I need to learn.
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Yes Heron is a real person :)

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I suspect Heron is probably very happy about your choice too. :-)
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Thankfully yes :)
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I am very excited to hear how this experiment unfolds...what hidden treasures you will find, because you are purposefully seeking Him with your whole heart and you will find Him in new ways.
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I didn't feel so great about Day 1. ha. I got home late from church last night and my daughter wanted to watch American Idol, so as we watched, I caught up on e-mail and Twitter. Fail. Already.

But I need to remember that it's not about that my behavior per se, but about learning to see where my heart is, and to look more to Jesus through it all.

I'm excited too about what He's going to teach me through this; so far it's that I don't have as much self-discipline as I think! :-)
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It's been so long since I have had time to sit and read...missed you and many other ladies who have blessed me so much in the past.

It is a journey isn't it...we miss so much when we multi-task. What a difficult thing to attempt.

May the Lord bless you as you seek Him this season.
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I'm glad to be joining you, Trish. I think I first heard about your series from your tweet.

Yes, it is all a journey; sometimes a crazy, winding one, but I have to trust that the Lord knows what we need--and don't need!--along the way. This season of pruning is difficult for me.
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PS. So glad you are joining us as we Seek Him.
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Ouch. have you been snooping on my life, Lisa? I am a terrible multi-tasker at the expense of fully attending to people.
Pursuing the ONE thing at a time is a wise idea.

I will have to see if I'll do that during Lent. I know I am late, but I still haven't decided what to do fully. I need to sit down tomorrow and deeply think about this one thing. Thanks, Lisa.
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I promise I haven't been snooping, Susan. ha. Unfortunately too many of us have gotten overly good at multitasking. It's been quite a challenge the past few days. Multitasking is such a way of life for me.

I pray you'll find the right thing for Lent. Let me know what you think about "Writing to God". It sounds fascinating. I might need to remember that for next Lent.
I think multi-tasking has long been "a woman thing," but now that we're ALL so busy, men have fallen into the same trap. Fasting from it sounds like a wonderful idea. We must miss so much when we don't give more than half of our attention to anything.

Thanks for sharing this, my friend.
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Yeah, I think multitasking is becoming a cultural thing instead of just a gender thing. Women still may be better suited for it but I see lots of men doing it too. Hopefully we'll all learn to use it to our advantage but throw out the parts of it that are harmful.
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