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Look—Connect—Do. Repeat.

My oldest daughter Morgan loves horses.
My youngest daughter Jenna loves cows.
Me? I love my daughters.

So when Jenna wanted to find cows to photograph on our hour drive home from Thanksgiving dinner, I obliged. cow3

LOOKING
As we drove, I looked for fields. I looked for fences. I looked for barns.
And of course I looked for cows, but sometimes you see the markers before you see the treasure.

I spotted a marker. An open, fenced-in area.

And then I spotted the prize. A pasture filled with cows.

We turned around, wound around the smaller road, and parked. Standing at the edge of the field, my happy daughter started snapping her camera. cow1

CONNECTING
But we weren’t alone. A young dad with a two-year-old on his shoulders wandered across the road where we were.

And made a suggestion. An offer of connection.

He knew the cows’ owner. Kind of. He could walk us over, if we wanted him to, for closer encounters.

My maternal instincts began whispering, “We don’t know this man. Nor do we know the place he’s leading us to. Is this wise???”

But Jenna’s huge smile and a good gut feeling made the connection too inviting to refuse. “Let’s do it!”

DOING
The knock on the farmhouse door led to Mr. B coming out. We explained the cow mania. He was understanding.

And the next thing I knew, Jenna and I were riding on a John Deere Gator through a cow pasture in a town not our own with a 90-year-old man we’d just met through another stranger we’d never seen.on-the-gatorhappy girl

The looking and the connecting led to the doing.

And the smiling.
And the interacting.
And the memory-making.

All glorious.cow2

AGAIN?
This Advent I begin a new search.
For markers. 
For Jesus’ coming in a fresh way.

I look in the Word. I look in songs. I look through people.

I can’t predict the connections He’ll make. But I know He’ll make them.
Connecting me to Him.

For the doing.

The smiling.
The interacting.
The memory-making.

May it be for His glory.

* * *

How are you looking for Him afresh this season?

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One of my birthday treasures that I purchased with that gift card to Amazon is Touching Wonder ~ Recapturing the Awe of Christmas by John Blase. It is such a precious treasure as I prepare my heart through this Advent season.

I loved your whole story about the cows. I grew up on a dairy farm, so I love cows too. So amazing how the Lord put it all together for Jenna!
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Sounds like a good book. I'll put it on my list for next year...I think Ann V. has highly recommended it as well.

I'm still WAITING for my Advent book to come in; I ordered it about a week and a half ago, hoping it would make it in time for Sunday, but it didn't. I think there's an Advent lesson in my waiting for my Advent book. ha.

Yes, we were quite amazed at how God connected all the dots for our Thanksgiving day adventure. It was out of character for us (well, me anyway) but the Lord rewarded us for it. Oh, to live with more faith all the time....
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I'm still trying to get the "look" part down. :) GREAT photos.
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Sometimes the "looking" can be the hardest part because it requires us to be intentional. I know you are a "look-er".

Jenna was very happy to get the photos, and thankfully to share them with me.
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Such beautiful pictures your daughter took. I love that you trusted her heart, her passion, her gut ... those are all gifts to her this Advent Season.
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If I hadn't seen her big grin and ready spirit, I probably would have said, "No." I'm guessing God does that with us too...when he sees our excitement, he then delights to pour on the blessings...
What a neat encounter! She'd find lots of fields of cows around here -- and one with donkeys. Someone even has a zebra.

I've read Come, Thou Long-Expected Jesus: Experiencing the Peace and Promise of Christmas by Nancy Guthrie the last couple of years. I was just trying to decide whether to use it again this year, but I don't know if I will as our pastor has us doing some extra reading in Job each week as we go through the book. I don't know if he will take a break from Job over the holidays or not.

I used her Let Every Heart Prepare Him Room: Daily Family Devotions for Advent last year, too. I may look at it again to see about using it with Jesse this year.
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She'd probably really love the zebra. And now that I think about it, I don't think we've been to a zoo since she really got into photography. Hmm....
I adore cows. When my husband and I were dating, he'd take me with him to feed the cows and while he gave them corn, I gave them Shakespeare. Totally bummed me out that without the corn, they wouldn't have heard my Shakespeare!

Your post made me think about how, as we get older, we start recognizing those fences and posts that give us a heads-up God is getting ready to do something in our lives:)

Those cow pictures were so great - what kind of camera was she using?
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Her camera is a Canon Rebel. She has loved it.

Your story is great--reading Shakespeare to cows. :-)
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Love the post. LOVE the photos...FANTASTIC photos...May be her calling???!!! :-) Lisa...thanks for the post...I feel it to my bones. God has literally plucked us up and moved us to a place where we are in a way....foreigners.... no connections, except for my husband's job, called us out...one could say. But, I say....BUT...we know. God has caused the transplant. He had prepared the soil, paved the way, planted the connections....proven His ways- His will- His sovereign plans...I am sure that He is and has been involved in every connection I have had to this day since I have stepped on to Iowa soil. God Is Good. I love your thoughts. I am glad you share what God lays on your heart. It encourages many, many....keep going Girl. Hugs to you. I love those beautiful big Bovine eyes and lashes too!!! :-) xoxo
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Yes, Julie, I think God can definitely continue using her photography passion for his glory. She's already made a mama proud with things she's done to bless others with her skills. I pray she'll continue to see and use the opportunities the Lord gives her.

You have been a great example to me for looking, connecting, and doing. You're a brave woman and one I admire!
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Looking for markers in Advent. I'm new to Advent this season and beginning my ADVENTure. I'm looking forward to finding my own markers. Lovely story. Great cow face pic.
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I've only been participating in Advent myself since the past several years, but the Lord has blessed me through it and I pray he'll do the same for you.

I love the cow faces too. They make me smile. :-)
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Awesome post! Your daughter is a hoot! I love when our children find passion. Thanks for encouraging her and helping, it's a good reminder for me. "The doing." I need to be more about that. That blonde cow is cool!
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Yes, it is exciting when we see our children get excited about different things, especially when it catches us off-guard. I understand her ballet obsession--she flitted around in pretend dances since she could walk. But cows? Don't know where that one came from! Ha. But it's been fun.
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that is so cool...amazing what happens too when you open yourself up to those possibilities...in how you see others and in how you look toward his coming in new ways...you made some great memories with that daughter too...smiles.
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It was definitely a neat adventure out of nowhere. It's amazing what we'll come across when we live with our eyes open. I want/need to do more of that.
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oh, you are such a loving mother, dear lisa. i wish more children had mothers like you.
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You're sweet, Emily. Your boys are definitely blessed to have you as their mom.
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I loved reading this. I laughed out loud. How did two women quieting going down a road end up on a gator with a ninety year old man? And what story did that man tell his kids?--"You won't believe what I did today!" So funny. That is my kind of adventure. Must be a characteristic of a person who loves taking pictures. I bet there was some giggling going on. You could have planned and it would never have worked out like this. She got some great pictures but also a story that she can smile and tell for years to come.

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My thoughts exactly, Brenda! I kept looking at myself in that field and wondering, "How in the world did I end up here???" Ha. I do wonder what he told his kids. He had just returned an hour earlier from eating Thanksgiving dinner with his daughter down the road.

So you and Jenna may be two peas in a pod if this kind of adventure sounds like you. :-) It's just more proof to me that I'm lacking that photography gene. (Although truth be told, I did have as much fun as Jenna did!)
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