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A dollar a word

autumn_at_homeIf a picture is worth a thousand words,
how much is a word worth?

According to my local newspaper, a dollar.
For obituaries anyway.

My friend Stan’s dad died Friday night. Mr. Stephens had been hurting for awhile. This summer was especially hard on him. So after 85 years of living, his body said enough.

Stan came over Saturday for wordsmithing help with his dad’s obituary. We counted words. A dollar a word.

How do you price a man’s life?

You don’t.
You say what you want to say, need to say.
The value of words isn’t cheap.   

Mr. Stephens’ life was full of chapters. He fought in the Pacific during World War II. He raised two sons. He loved four grandkids and lost one. He became a great-grandfather. He remained faithful to the same woman for over 60 years. And is faithful to the Lord still.

Do you get the picture?

But in the autumn of his life, his words were leaving him.

His granddaughter Christi picked them up at his funeral yesterday. Words that painted the special bond between a grandfather and a granddaughter. Words that came from years of stories. Words that drew tears from each of us.

Words that were priceless.

In the autumn time, the death and dying times, don’t forget to take a picture of words. It’ll be worth more than a thousand dollars.  treetops

The colors outside my window Monday morning had to be captured.
Pictures are important.
Even in death and dying times—God still paints with shades of blaze.
Listen to what He wants to say, needs to say.
He’s already paid for every word.

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Very insightful; how do you price a man's life? So sorry to hear of your friend's death. But you painted a beautiful picture with your words and your autumn leaves are simply beautiful Lisa.

Blessings and love,
Debbie
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Thank you, Debbie. Mr. Stephens was very ready. You can drop in a prayer for Mrs. Stephens and their family if you'd like. They've been good people to have in my life.

I'm wondering what autumn looks like in Arizona. :-) I'm sure it's beautiful too.
Love you,
Lisa
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Beautiful pictures. What a view! The trees in north Texas are just beginning to get their autumn highlights. We have a cold front expected tonight, so that may speed things along. Thanks for sharing God's beauty in your neck of the woods.

This is a lovely way to honor your friend and his father's faithful life. May God comfort and strengthen the family as they grieve. God's blessings to you, friend!
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It is interesting to see how the seasons can look different in different areas even with our own country. I'm guessing ours are basically alike, but I've never even visited Texas so I'm not really sure. ha. I just know that God has a way of showing up everywhere however he chooses to!

Hope you're having a blessed week, Christina!
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Makes me want to know Stan.
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If you knew Stan (and/or his dad), you would write some awesome stories about them, I'm sure of it. I've known Stan all my life (and thus his father all my life too), and he's definitely one of a kind.
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Lovely...the pics are beautiful Lisa. thank you for sharing it all...much to think on. Hugs.....
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Funerals, weddings, births--they always give me much to think about too, Julie. Hugs back to you, friend.
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This is so beautiful and so timely. Thank you, my friend. I think this is perfect prose.
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You have such a sweet spirit about you, Trisha. I should say "Spirit."

I know this is such a hard season for you, grieving the loss of two special people--one that you have many pictures of, and one that you want to have pictures of. Both hurt. My heart prays for your heart.

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nice...i hear you on this...and our words are seeds for future growth as well...so sew them often into the lives of others while we still have that chance...
Lisa,

Beautiful autumn leaves! How like our Artist God that he takes death and paints it in panoramic colors, strikingly vivid and memorable.

Thank you. May your friend be remembered in vivid color. May it be a testament to his Artist.

Jennifer Dougan www.jenniferdougan.com
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Beautiful tribute, Lisa. Reminds me of the verse in Ecclesiastes about learning more from the house of mourning that the house of feasting (forgive me for not taking time to look it up -- I'm about at the end of my computer time).
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Priceless! It also reminds me that a man's faithfulness is a rich inheritance for his children's children - and your story shows the richness of that!
so much wisdom here. and it makes me cry, how our lives come down to this... where would we be without the promise of the after-life? love to you dear lisa. xo
The last thing you said, "He already paid for every word." Thank you. I needed this. Blessings to you in the midst of the blaze.
What a great perspective you were able to gain from this experience. Thanks for sharing it with all of us!
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