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A second chance

I listen to Brian “Head” Welch tell about the performer's high. About how he didn't know how to stay sober. About how he sunk to the lowest gutter as lead guitarist of the band Korn.

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A bad performance

While I can’t relate to those specifics, I can relate to what happened next: the need for another chance when things go bad.

Sometimes the bad thing is clearly followed by a second chance. Two Tuesdays ago I was at the “Lighting of the Green” concert at Lipscomb University, headed by singer Amy Grant.

And something went wrong.

Amy had just introduced a brand new group, a trio of men performing on stage for the very first time. I’m sure they had the performer's high, about to sing to a large audience, including the presence of large talent already covered in fame.

But the audio messed up. In and out. Loud then silent. We could see mouths moving, but only occasionally hear voices.

The group sang anyway. The audience politely clapped anyway. But this first performance would go down as a disaster.

Another chance

Until Amy Grant stepped in. She stalled for time as technicians switched out microphones and played with wires.

Then Amy asked the trio to repeat their performance.

A second chance.

This time, as they sang again with gusto, we could hear and enjoy every rehearsed note. The wrong had been righted. The second chance led to a roar of approval as they sang the last notes.

Me, too?

When things have gone wrong in my journey—either through my own sinful decisions or just life happening—I want a second chance, too. Someone to step in, rearrange the wires, and give me a clean start.

I don’t want to feel defeated when I flub up my first shot.

I don’t want my acceptance to be conditional on a perfect performance. Because I can never give one. Neither could the trio of guys at Lipscomb. Neither could singer Brian Welch (more of his story here).

So how do we find hope? Jesus Christ. He stepped in for us two thousand years ago. He continues to step in today.

Because he did give the perfect performance, he can hand out a second chance to the rest of us. And a third. And a four millionth chance, however many we need.

I’ll take the second chance. And praise him for it. Because he got it right the first time, I don’t have to.

I’m glad he’s first. And I am second.live-second

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I’m blogging thoughts this week from Live Second. Today is from Session 2: Issues, Week 6: Struggles, Day 3: Confession.

When have you been thankful for a second chance?

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Lisa, I appreciated this post this morning...THIS very morning. I needed it. (((hugs)))
1 reply · active 648 weeks ago
I'm glad to hear that, Dianna. We never know what word God will put somewhere just for us. Enjoy your second chance today. :-) Love you.
Thanks for the inspirational post.
1 reply · active 648 weeks ago
Same to you. I appreciate your honesty.
What a perfect picture of how God gives us second chances--and often the second chance is filled with so much joy because of God's redemption in our lives. Beautiful thoughts, Lisa. They encourage me on this dreary Monday! :)
1 reply · active 648 weeks ago
Good point, Beth. Perhaps we can often find even more joy from a second chance than we would have it we got it "right" the first time.

It's a dreary Monday in my neck of the woods, too. Cold is on its way to replace the warmth we've been having. Bracing for that.
Praise be to God for the second chances He gives us! I certainly wouldn't be here without them.

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1 reply · active 648 weeks ago
Aren't we all blessed to have second chances? Already today I've used up several. His grace is a beautiful thing. Thanks for dropping in, Becca.
I am so with you, Lisa. "Because he got it right the first time, I don’t have to. I’m glad he’s first. And I am second." Amen! I love that I don't have to be perfect for God's love. I love that he's first. Because everything starts with him. Everything gets meaning from him. YES! Thanks for reminding of these blessings. Joy-filled Blessings to you!
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Everything indeed starts with him. If he hadn't loved first, we wouldn't know what love is. What an awesome God we have!
I am a son of redemption. Some wander further from home than others... I'm eternally grateful for the grace supplied by my Father through my Savior; Jesus Christ. We all need second chances in this flesh... Grace provides them. Great post. Heart wrenching testimony.
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That is a heart-wrenching testimony for sure. It tugs at my heart to hear how messed up his life was, yet he also became a "son of redemption" (love that term!). And I a daughter of redemption. Grace--yes!
Well written! Only by God's grace huh?! Amen to that. Thanks for writing.
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1 reply · active 648 weeks ago
Definitely only by his grace. Can you imagine a world without it? I don't even want to think about it. I'm certain we would have all obliterated each other long ago were it not for his grace and patience with us.

I appreciate you stopping by, Cameron. Live second!
Which time? So often I need a second chance. God's faithful--He pours grace over the flubs and lets me start anew.
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Great question, Pamela. Which time indeed! Even in something so simple as a to-do list, I find myself needing second, third, fourth chances in this day alone to get things done. And that's barely scratching the surface of ways I need his faithful grace....
What a classy thing for Amy Grant to do. And a great metaphor for the rest of us. I appreciate you, Lisa.
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I thought it was very classy of Amy Grant, too, Jennifer. She handled it as the pro she is. You could tell she was ad libbing for sure, but it just endeared her to us all the more. She sincerely wanted these guys to get a good first outing. A nice Christmas gift of grace for them!
So glad He holds out His Hands to me when I mess up again and yet again... Remembering a song lyric by Twila Paris, "I am here to confess the same old thing...how can you still be listening?"
3 replies · active 648 weeks ago
I don't know that song, Connie...going to go look for it though because I'm a Twila Paris fan from way back. Her lyrics really speak to me. Thanks for sharing!
Me too, Lisa. The title is "Never Ending Love."
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Thanks for sending the title. So I'm listening to it right now on youtube!

Love these lyrics:

I am here to confess the same old thing
How can He still be listening
How many times will He forgive
Rescue me from the way I live
What does it take
To weave a net that will not break

Chorus
Everlasting, neverending love without condition
Everlasting, neverending, neverending love
Yes all of us can mess up in life. And I'm so glad God gives us second chances.
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1 reply · active 648 weeks ago
Me, too, Debbie. It also encourages us to give out second chances to others as well! Hope you're having a blessed week.
Oh Lisa, I'm so grateful for those second, third... twenty-fifth chances! It's difficult for me to conceive of His immeasurable grace. Thankful I'm a daughter of Redemption! Thank you for this wonderful post!
Blessings ~ Mary
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1 reply · active 648 weeks ago
It's hard for me to grasp grace too. This has been such a year of GRACE for me--to experience it, read about it, depend on it. Grace is Jesus and I am so grateful for that truth.
Brian Welch's story is so powerful. I'm going to stop right now and say a prayer for that man and all who have experienced such powerful conversions...

And what you say about grace, Lisa...so grateful Jesus made the way.
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Brian Welch definitely has a powerful story. I read one of his books (he's written three now) about his conversion experience and it was an amazing testimony to the raw power of God.

I don't keep up with him by any means (not into his style of music, ha), but occasionally look him up. This was on his Twitter feed not long ago, so I'm glad to see he's still holding on to grace!

"Shouldn't be very hard to decide - U give Christ all the dirt and guilt in your life, and He gives U His complete innocence & perfection"

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